Friday, February 15, 2013
Out of the blue, here i am updating my blog cos i think i really2 have to do it.
This might be a sudden news to most of my readers (if any lah since dah lama tk update. :p). I have given birth to my 3rd boy, on Feb 4th 2013, 9.25pm. :) quite shock isnt? Hehehe
But since ive put up the stories of my 2 previous birth deliveries, i think i shud do the same for my 3rd one cos it wud be unfair if in the future my 3rd boy cudnt find any post on his birth. :p
I was expected to deliver on 8th feb 2013 but on the 3rd feb, something happened to me. While waiting for my husband to go out for dinner, i went blackout and luckily there was my maid to catch me from falling off the chair. Yes, i was sitting on a chair in the kitchen and suddenly i was having a short of breath, coughing and dizzy like mad then blackout.
My husband together with my mil, rushed me to the ER sdmc subang jaya. At that time i was conscious. It was a 5 min blackout je. Nasib baik. Then the dr who was on duty did a thorough check up on me. He suspected i was having vertigo lah, imbalance lah, yada yada. Which i think quite ridiculous. I was 100% sure that it was because of my pregnancy. Pembawakan budak la katakan.
After that, they sent me to the delivery room to do the ctg on my baby. It turned out that i was actually having the real contractions. Hahaha. Which at first i thought it was only braxton hicks. Was also dilated 2cm but my gynae, dr siti zaleha told me to go back first and wait for any further sign of labor.
So at 11.30 pm, me, my husband, in laws and my parents(yeah they rushed off from home once they gotta know about me) went back home. So the next day was a waiting game day. :)
We waited and waited till i gave up. I was sure that i'll give birth in 2-3 days time cos no sign of labor occurred. it seems like the contraction was getting slower and milder.
But at about 3 pm, i felt something came out, like something is wrong with my bladder. I tot i peed in my pants, so
I checked and it xlook like i peed. Haha. Then the water came out slowly. So i knew that it was my waterbag. Maybe leaking or something. So off we went to
Sdmc again. Went to the delivery room, was 3cm dilated but according to my gynae, my waterbag hasnt broke yet. So she asked me whether to stay or to go back. I wasnt sure so i said i dont know. Then she asked me to stay for awhile but i need to walk around cos they need to monitor my waterbag.
At about 6pm i started to feel the pain, so i just lie down on the bed and the contractions has reached 12(the strongest if im not mistaken). I was 4cm dilated. And as the time passed by, the pains grew stronger and stronger till i felt like going to the toilet to poo. At this point of time i knw that soon i'll give birth.
At about 8pm (i dah tk sedar time dah sbb dah sakit sgt. Husband yg update) the contractions became stronger and stronger. Ive started taking the gas (ethonox) and started screaming as well. I told everyone that i need to push! In other words, i yelled to everyone in the room that i really2 need to push. Nurses told me to wait and calm down cos i was in stress so the pelvic area wasnt really soften and ready yet eventho at that time i was about 8cm dilated.
Then dr siti came, checked and said that i can start pushing. I wait no more and started pushing. I screamed like hell cos i felt like by screaming it gve me more energy tho ppl around me was telling yhe opposite. But i just ignored them and at times i scolded husband. I told him to shut up. Cos he kept on saying 'jgn jerit. Simpan energy' yada yada yada.
I cant remember how many times ive pushed but suddenly i felt something came out. Ya Allah and the pain down there was like, adoii.. Like something is burning. Frankly speaking this time it was more painful than dayyan's time(2nd pregnancy). Maybe bcos this boy the baby's slightly bigger than dayyan. During dani, i cant say anything cos i was on epidural but 2nd and 3rd deliveries, i didnt take epidural.
And at 9.25 pm, my baby is out. Alhamdulillah.. And for the first time ever i experienced the contractions after the baby's out. Sakitnyaaaa. Never experienced it during 1st and 2nd delivery. One of the nurse told me it's normal. Slalunye the 3rd and after that, we will experience the contractions after delivery. And not to mention during the stitching process. Haha.
But alhamdulillah everything went fine. We named the baby on the 7th day of his delivery (ikut sunnah nabi) and we did a small celebration like tahnik and we allsp shave the baby's head on the same day.
Below are the photos of my 3rd boy. :)
Putra Daim Nashif
4th Feb 2013
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
With most ardently and my family trip to london. :) i have few photos to upload here. Just a few. If u want to see more u can follow me on instagram. :)
Nway, thank u so much for reading my blog. This blog is created 5 years ago. I wasnt married n have kids yet. :) thank u. Back to our family trip, we went to london for almost 2 weeks. Me n family had a great time. Esp the kids of course. ;) they had a great time. It was summer time but the weather was really cold till 8deg. The first 2 days it was 21-22 deg. But on the 3rd day we were there, the temp drop till 10 and once 8deg. Best. :)
We stayed at indurrah apartment just 5 mins away from oxford street. Out apartment is closed to tony blair's resident.
Frankly speaking, i love it there. The ppl are so friendly n nice. I love the taxis and the drivers. I feel save when i was there. If they have the same taxis and drivers here i dont mind going anywhere by taxi. I dont mind sending my kids to school by taxi. And the park there, so clean! And i did not see any cleaner picking up the rubbish(if there is any) but still they can maintain the cleanliness.
The place that we stayed is close to halal restaurants. But even if it's kinda hard to find halal food there, we have our own catering and they delivered food everyday. Malay food of course. Nasi lemak, nasi minyak, nasi putih sambal belacan ulam, local kuih like kuih lopes etc. i ate a lot!! Oh, and i missed their hot chocolate from pret a manger. Sedap berlemak tersangat sedaaappp! :)
There we washed and dried our own clothes till at one time something was wrong with the washing machine so the kitchen was flooded and i had to mop the kitchen. Haha. Pegi holiday pun ade masa mop lantai. Rupenye kami salah pakai sabun baju. Tak boleh pakai sabun yg keluarkan banyak buih.
Nway, enjoy the photos below. Thank u so much for reading!
Well, so many things happened in between and first, i'd like to announce that my husband is a co-partner or cosrypurplelabel boutique. :) we are collaborating with Putra Aziz the designer and we have set up a new boutique at the curve, above Starbuck. Do drop by if u are there.
We had a boutique launch few months ago and im happy to announce that Izara Aishah (the actress) is our Ambassador. :) as for the collection, Cosry is still maintaining it's signature which is Caftan with swarovski beadings and also Kebaya Lace. But 1 1/2 month ago, we had launched a new collection which we named it as Vivid Collection. It's more young n trendy and slightly cheaper than our usual Caftan and Kebaya Collection.
So for this post im gonna upload a few photos during the 1st launch and will continue with the next post for Vivid Collection.
Pictures might be jumble up cos im writing this post using my phone. But will edit it ASAP. Okie dokie. Till my next post, ciao!~
Me in Cosry Caftan :)
Monday, May 7, 2012
Message*: Hi Rinie,
Harap awk sekeluarga dlm keadaan sejahtera dan dirahmati selalu.
I'm in my late 20s (really late... T_T) and still single. Seeing my frens, atau sesiapa yang umur lebih kurang dah berkeluarga, happy dgn anak and husband, membuatkan saya rasa rendah diri. Tapi still boleh simpan dalam hati.
Bukan tak ada yang ajak keluar, tapi sayangnya yang mengajak itu adalah husband org, tunang orang. Kalau sekali dua, saya boleh tahan lagi. Tapi dah kena berulang kali, buat saya trauma. Sampai satu tahap, saya dah fed-up dgn misi mencari soulmate. Tak reti dah nak bezakan siapa yang ikhlas, or siapa yang tak.
Insya Allah setakat ni, istikharah dah buat, tawakal pun sudah. Tapi maybe belum sampai masa saya lagi. Right? Tapi kadang-kadang, dgr sindiran org lain adalah sgt mengecikkan hati. "R u normal? Y u r not married yet?"... "Kau tgk aku dah ada anak bini semua, kau tak teringin ke?"... "Memilih sgt ni. Suppose umur mcm u ni, ada org offer, terima je." Haih, sgt menduga.
So, conclusion? I'm not sure if this really a problem but i need a channel to let it all out. If you can give some advise would be great coz sometimes i really need a frenly word rather than 1001 questions.
Bu anyway, thanx a lot Rinie for at least having this kind of way to communicate with you. Really adore you and your kids. Thanx again.
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Hello sue. :) im glad u r willing to share this with us. I do know that sometimes we need to let it out tapi bukan dkt org yg kita kenal cos we dont want them to judge us or maybe we dont want to trouble them with our prob.
Like ive said a few times before, im not good in giving advices, in fact im in no position of giving any. But if u need someone to listen too, i am here without having any curiosity of who u are actually. :) so regarding on your problem, i know that u cant stand ppl commenting about ur status. And about that, just dont think about it. Ppl will never stop commenting tak kisah la u buat ape pun. :) even if u r a very good person, perfect and etc, ppl will still have something to say about u.
Kdg2 buat pekak je. But i know it is sooo hard to do that kan? Lagi2 sbb kite ni perempuan. Mesti ade makan dalam. Kalau dh sakit hati sgt, take a deep breath, relax n fikir benda positive or yg best yg u ade n org tu takde.haha. Maybe u ade kelebihan dkt tempat2 lain?. So think of that, and u'll feel better.
Psl pasangan hidup, that one i cant say anything sbb maybe i tak boleh nak tau ape yg u rase sbb i tak rasa mcm tu. cume kite perlu ingat, semua ni ketentuan Allah swt. Mungkin belum tibanya masa u lagi. Tapi insyaAllah, jodoh akan sampai jugak. InsyaAllah. Dont give up. Sentiasa berdoa n enjoy ur single life. Tell u, selagi single ni, enjoy betul2. :) selagi belum ade commitment. That is one of the way yg boleh buat u lupa psl benda2 ni. Tapi selalu ingat Allah swt. Ketenangan sememangnya datang daripada Dia. :)
Nway, i tktau ape i membebel ni tapi i harap at least sikit sebanyak boleh buat u rase lega sbb u dh let it out. Soo.. Take good care of urself and never give up :) insyaAllah.
Friday, May 4, 2012
Message*: Dear kak Rinie, assalamualaikum.
Long story short.. My boyfriend broke up with me. He found another girl. Yea, we're on a long distance relationship. And well, that girl is at the same matriks as he is. So he dumped me.. And I want him back. What should I do? I don't want have a relationship with him now. As is bf gf lalala. I want to be his wife. Should I talk to him? Because we're not in good terms right now. Bad break up. Really bad break up. Hmm. :(
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Hi shazana. Well, as for me, i cant tolerate a guy who dumped me because he found another girl. That is just something that i cant accept. If he can do it once, there is a possibility that he would do it again. U have to be strong. Give yourself some time n think rational. :) but this is only my opinion tho. If u still cant forget him, its up to u. But remember, u are only in ur college life. Belum kerja lagi. Dah kerja nanti jumpa mcm2 orang. :) nway, good luck with your decision. Wish u all the best :)
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Nway, in the midst of planning dani's 3rd birthday party. Theme is superhero and dani wants to be a superman. Susah jugak nk cari costume sbb takde size but finally dpt lah jugak. This time lebih fun because dani is big enuf to understand n he knows what he wants. So im kinda excited in organizing his party.
On the other hand, we r trying for the 3rd one so pls pray for us. InsyaAllah..
I betul2 plan using the fertility calendar. Ehhehe. Aiming for a baby girl. Kalau dpt alhamdulillah.. If tk dpt pun alhamdulillah..
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
It started with my friends and they asked me to join them. at first they wanted to use me as a model but since we r good friends, i have decided to join them. it's only a small business as i need to concentrate more on organizing events under The Insiders (me and fiena)
wow. it has been such a long time after i really put up some updates in this blog. im planning to write a proper update. insyaAllah.
Ive been sending dani to Beaconhouse for 2 months already n yesterday was the parent-teacher meeting. Alhamdulillah it went well. teacher said that dani and his good friend speaks in a full sentence. ie ' let's go out and wash our hands'. 'lets help teacher to clean up the toys' yada yada. n that is why he is close to his good friend(yashril) because yashril likes to talk as well and dani likes to respond.
teacher said they 2 are at a different level. chewaaaah.. mummy bangga la time tu. hehehe. but yeah, dani talks a lot. and dayyan talks a lot too. he is now 1 and 6 yo. he can say in 'mummy nak milo'. 'daddy go office'. 3 words in a sentence. tapi ya Allah... he is really stubborn and manja. like reaaaalllllyyyy manja. same goes with dani lah. eversince he started his school, byk tanye, byk permintaan and semua.
nway back to muchachas. u can visit our blog at Muchachas and you can find us on facebook here--> MuchachasFB . In 2 hours after we launch our first batch, all the scarves and hoodies are sold out. Alhamdulillah. :) so pay us a visit yea. we sell long shawls cotton silk in vibrant n pretty colors. The length is 1.7 m so it is easy for u to do a few hijab styles. and we have this hoodie design. it's actually similar like TUDUNG SITI but we made it by cotton and cotton lycra and it's a bit long than the usual tudung siti.
oh, and another thing, i am no longer with abiya muslimah. i think ive wrote about this before in my blog.
so.. readers, thank u so much for your continuous support in reading my blog and etc. :)
love u muchooo
Thursday, February 23, 2012
It was my last 20's birthday and i just cant imagine im like soooo close to 30 oredi! Omg!omg! I feel old and i AM old!
My wish for this year is tht, i want to have a baby girl. Let me have a daughter before i reach 30 pls. Bismillah and doa byk2 ye. It wud be much appreciate if u readers can pray for me too. Heheh. Anyone going to mekah? Nak kirim doa. :p
Nway, Alhamdulillah, whatever it is i am still blessed for having 2 sons and a loving husband. Oh, talking bout husband, guess what i got for my birthday present. Hehehe. U'll find out at the end of this post. Teka je lah. Haha.
And on top of tht, he surprised me with a small surprise birthday celebration with my girls. Thank u so much mr husband.
so below are a few photos during the surprise birthday makan2 at serai. :) seriously i was so surprised cos that morning we brought dayyan to his class. after the class my husband asked me to go to another restaurant and order for foods. ive ordered sang har noodles. hahaha.
right after i ordered the food, my husband asked me to go down to serai to pick up something(and tell them my husband's name). i was like. ape ni. i tot he ordered me a pavlova cake but feels funny to think about it again. takkan la i pulak nak kena pick up cake for my birthday kan? so when i told the waiter my husband's name, he directed me to the end of the restaurant and surprise2! all my close friends are there. :) im sooo touched. i shed some tears. really.