~The Tale of Rinanda~

Me during reflection2012

2012-01-18T15:12:00.001+08:00

Hahah. Only these 3 pics that ive managed to snap using my own phone. Yela..organizer mcmmane nk byk2 gamba kan? :p

Me with heliza, with fatheen nabila, one of our models and the bottom right with maria elena, she's the emcee on that day.

Reflection 2012

2012-01-18T14:09:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum.. :)

it took me a couple of days after reflection2012 to update my blog.

hello everyone. Below i copy-paste my status in Facebook. hehehe. i dont feel like typing it all over again.

Thank you so much to those who came to REFLECTION2012, for supporting us , for being a wonderful audience, for enjoying urself and for helping our underprivileged children.
On behalf of the whole team ( Ammara boutique, The Insiders(me and Safrina Hussain ) we would like to say it was an honour having Hana Tajima, vivy yusof FashionValet.net, farrah adeeba Najjah Boutique Officialpage, finaz yunus, najlah ishak, Heliza Helmi, The Fabulous Cats, the beautiful fashionistas from indonesia (inarovi, tantrihavid, siti jwryh, restu and bayinurhayati,singapore and brunei.
media (Nona tv3, WHI tv3, intrend tv2,tvalhijrah,safiyyah tv9, nur mag, dara.com mag, rapi mag, womenofmalaysia, by'u, aniqah, perempuan and many others.to our wonderful crew and managers we are truly greatful to work alongside every single one of you.

TO our beloved designers OLDBLOSSOMBOX, ABIYA MUSLIMAH, AMMARAHIJABI, PASTELINA, SHOPSPTNKSWTHRT, CALAQISYA, RINA SALLEH COLLECTION, NILAM AND YASALMA u guys are the best and masyaAllah everything on the runway was amazing :).
and to all the Sponsors Lana's Store , RxLite, RxYoung, Linda G Catering,The Wedding Fairies, Tengku Adeck and Encik Sleyanka for photographs, Yaya Haryati Abu Bakar for video during the event, avicenna for the video teaser, solek by amal, JP,Cawan, and many2 more, thank you so much for the generosity.

and to every one of you who came, either to the fashion show or the bazaar, we couldnt thank you enough for supporting us from right to start. again, from the bottom of our heart, we apologize for any of the hiccups along the way, may we meer again soon insyaALLAH. its a wrap for our first baby !

ps/thanks to my family and friends, esp Tengku Tengku Azizan and Najmie Noordin for being so supportive. :)

alhamdulillah. the event went well tho there were hiccups here and there but we managed to go thru it. but there were also flaws that can be fixed before the event and i am really and still sad thinking about it. so yeah, what we can do now is to make improvements in case if we are planning for Reflection2013? :)

To those who came again, thank u so much for supporting us. :) really. without u guys, this event wont turn out to be successful(errrr..successful ke?) hehe. Reflection was on WHI 16th January, to any who has missed it and would want to watch it, you can go to tonton.com.my. :)

i will upload photos taken by our professional photographers soon.

in the meanwhile, here are a few of rehearsal photos that i got from Raja Karim Photography.
and make-up by Eyra Rizal. thanks so much eyra. my models look soo pretty!

Rehearsal with full make-ups.

Okay, once ive received the photos, will upload it here soon!

Dani's first day of school

2012-01-10T10:15:00.000+08:00

Hello!

Dani has started his pre-school a'dy. It's a drop-off school, 4 hrs. :) first day of school, he seems so excited and happy.

But this week he has started to make excuses. Heheheh. First excuse-school meletup kan mummy. Mcm empire. 2nd excuse- mummy,dani sakit perut ni. Pegi hospitalla.

And 3rd excuse- dani sayang mummy.dani nk mummy sayang,mummy don't go okay.

For the first few days he neglected me, and tak ingat langsung dkt I ok.smalam je baru buat2 excuse ni.

But alhamdulillah, so far he's doing ok with the school. And me on the other hand, is too busy with reflection. Hope to see u girls there.

Pls. Come and show us some support.

P/s this is only a short update. InsyaAllah lepas reflection I update pjg2. :p

2012-01-05T15:41:00.006+08:00

Hello Readers!!!
Happy 2012!

what are your resolutions for this year? i have many, one of it is to get a babt girl. Please pray for us. :)

In the meantime, i am sending dani to a new drop-off school!from monday to friday and he seems to be enjoying it. nway, Reflection Fashion Show event is coming soon!!!!

10 more days girls TEN MORE DAYS!!!

feel free to watch the video teaser in youtube by clicking here--- > REFLECTION 2012

Do come to the bazaar, 10 am till 7pm and do support us. You can find the details on reflection at the end of the video.

thank u!!!

or if you cant click on the link, watch the video below!!!

Holiday-ing

2011-12-26T17:18:00.000+08:00

Hello everyone! How's everyone been doing? It seems like I've been updating my blog frequently recently. Heheh.

Nway, I'm now at singapore holiday-ing with my family. :)

Today is the first day, just reached here a few hrs ago. Too many people! And bringing these 2 kids along, mmg payah nk shopping ni. Hehe. tgkla nanti mcmmane. We r going to USS tomorrow! Yippie yay!

2 photos of me and and my kids strolling along orchard road. :)

Happy holiday to those who are on hol, or going for a hol soon. :)

Ciao~

4th year anniversary

2011-12-25T08:02:00.001+08:00

Yes. Alhamdulillah..today is our 4th year anniversary and im blessed with these 2 lil boys in my life.

Thank you Allah for blessing me with a happy marriage and thank you darling dear for being a great husband and a great daddy to us. Marrying you and living with u makes my life complete.

And having these 2 boys makes everything so perfect. Amin.

To dear husband, i love u no matter what n till eternity.

Towards the end of 2011

2011-12-24T15:21:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum, Hello and Hi everyone. :)
Today is Saturday and i bet most of you are in the mood for a holiday. :)
We are going to Singapore on this coming Monday and yeah, im like sooo sooo excited! lama gile tak jalan jauh2 with my two lil kiddos. :)

Any malls that u go now, in KL and Subang, you'll find that the place has been decorated with Christmas Deco. All the lights, Christmas Tree and all. And i think the most beautiful decorations is in Pavilion. Sangat cantik.

So we went there last sunday and the kids took a ride on the carousel. Dani loved it but dayyan was a bit scared when that thing started to move. haha. so comel. lucky that daddy went together with them.

Tried to snap a photo of them together tapi dayyan was so excited so he didnt stand still.

Terpaksa ambik gamba dani sorang je.

The beautiful Carousel

Mummy and the kids

and mummy alone. ehhe. had lunch at bens pavilion.

so i'll update my blog soon right after we came back from singapore okay. :)

in the meantime u can follow me on twitter or instagram. hehehee. saya selalu sgt update disitu

~

PSSST: TOMORROW IS MY FOURTH YEAR ANNIVERSARY. :P

Reflection 2012

2011-12-24T15:16:00.001+08:00

Hello Everyone!

Finally i present, the video teaser of REFLECTION Fashion Show Event 2012!!

The tickets to the fashion show is sold out. sorry to those who didnt get a chance to buy it. But you can just come to the bazaar on that day! It starts at 10 am till 7 pm. :)

You'll have to pay rm5 to enter.

To those who are coming to the Fashion Show, (who already bought the tix), I just cant wait to meet u girls in person!!!!! Some local celebrities will be there, and guess what, there'll be a performance by Fabulous Cats. :) yippie yay. Hana Tajima from Style Covered/Maysaa and Vivy from Fashion Valet will be there too!

see you girls soon!

Let's Share- Comparing Babies

2011-12-18T17:49:00.006+08:00

Ive received this form a few days ago and im sorry i only gt a chance to post it in my blog today.

Name*:	Ally
Subject*:	Comparing babies
Message*:	Hi Rinie, I am one of yr silent reader.I like baca yr blog on fashion, family and parenting tips. I know you have this column on let's Share on yr blog so i thought i can ask your opinion and readers on few issues that i am dealing with currently. I have 20 months old daughter who i dots so much and the only grandchild on both sides. Till recently when my daughter was 6 months old, my SIl pulak deliver a cute baby girl who is so adorable and memang putih melepak. Sebelum ni everything ok and i sayang my niece sama mcm i sayang my own baby. I always pamper her with pretty dresses and even bought her same toys whenever i shop for my little one. Ye lah, anak sedara sorang je so ok la. Bila dah sepuluh org nanti suruh mak ayah beli la..hehe. Okay satu je yg i dah malas nak belikan things for my niece: SIL suka mintak mintak. And she told me kalau ada sale kat Mothercare or Toy r Us belilah lagi.. Mula mula i buat bodoh, tapi lama lama i naik meluat pulak sbb she never (not a single time) bought anything for my baby! Even stokin sebelah pun tak pernah. Masa my daughter's 1 birthday party dia hadiahkan farley's rusk, boleh? She said i have high taste when it comes to dressing my baby so she is worried taste dia tak sama dgn! I. To be safe dia beli beli Farley's rusk je sbb confirm baby makan. So sekarang i pun dah naik malas nak hadiahkan apa apa for her baby? AM i being childish? Secondly i do not know how to deal with my in law yg suka sangat compare our kids. My baby ni despite dah 20 months she hardly eats. Kalau makan pun nasi kosong or plain bread. Other than that she tolak tepi. Mula mula i runsing jugak and keep pushing her to eat but it will always end up with drama (her crying and i got frustrated). I even cut down her milk intake but still tak berhasil. But my paed told me not to worry so much since she still nak her milk every 3 hrs and seems to be developing and progressing well. My sil's baby pulak jenis yg nganga je apa yg org suap so senang to feed. Each time i pegi rumah in law, i mesti stress cuz they keep comparing my baby yg kurg makan dgn my niece yg kaki makan. They keep saying budak besar dekat nursery (anak sil) senang makan tapi budak yg duduk dgn mak (i am SAHM) susah makan. Not only that, they even cakap my daughter "rendang" dan hitam (she is petite and tanned), niece putih (Sil proudly claimed dia byk makan delim! a masa pregnant sbb tu anak dia comel). Sometimes they even baringkan the kids togheter to compare their heights! Every week ada je lah bende for them to compare between the grandkids. Latest: their sleep style. My daughter jenis yg bagi susu, bantal, we sit next to her dan terus tido but sil's baby pulak jenis yg depend on buiaian to sleep. Ini pun my mil complaint susah nak jaga my daughter cuz we hv to be on her side till she fall asleep. Yg cucu sorg lagi yg kena henjut buai sampai tido, dia org tak complaint. I try to ignore all this and just buat pekak but i have my limit too. Masa niece's akikah mil bought set of jewellery for the niece but none for my baby. Her reason: my baby ada eczema so tak boleh pakai emas..WTH? I told my hubby this and he asked me to ignore all this and just focus on our amazing daughter. Lagipun my hubby said my side ( my parents) sayang sangat dgn our baby so tak payah la nak haddap kasih sayang grandparents from his side. Now i ok lagi tapi i tak boleh bayangkan mcm mana bila my kid dah besar dan faham yg atuk dia sayang cucu satu lagi and not her. ;:( Sorry Rinie i bebel byk sangat. I betul betul buntu mcm mana nak deal dgn situation ni- SIl yg berkira dan in law yg suka compare cucu. Ikutkan hati i memang i tak nak balik sana tapi tak boleh la since we live just 20 mins away. No excuse not to go back. Thank you

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Hello dear. im sooo sorry to hear this. i know it must be really hard to handle it. i seriously cant accept anyone who likes to compare babies esp when they do it obviously. it's just not right cos every baby/kid is unique. Alhamdulillah up till now nobody does that to my kids(i dont know la if there is,behind my back). anyway, dont think about it too much. but i know it's hard to do. some people, they managed to give some remarks when someone else is talking and comparing about their babies. i think ive read somewhere about this, but i just cant remember where. if i jumpa nanti, will let u know ok. :)

nway, regarding on ur sil, i think it's better for u to stop buy her all those lavish or expensive stuff. that is like way too much la. i mean, giving ur dot farleys rusk just because she doesnt know what u like. byk lagi benda lain boleh beli kot. books ke, toys ke, hat ke ape ke. i think wat u shud do now is to concentrate raising up ur dot. nanti dah besar masuk skolah semua jadi sama balik. i think if u can be open with ur in laws, maybe u guys shud sit down and talk about this. takut if lama2 nanti u dah tak tahan nanti jadi tak best la kan. but this is only my opinion. i think others might have diff opinion or even better than mine. :)

so, in the meantime lets hear what others have to say till i found that book that i mentioned above.

Too busy to update

2011-12-16T08:01:00.001+08:00

Hello everyone,

Im soo sorry that ive been neglecting my blog for few weeks a'dy. Been so busy with reflection, interviewed few models for catwalks, preparing this and that.

Have you guys bought the ticket yet? It's on 15 th jan 2012. For those who doesnt know, it's a fashion show event and the collection of money will be donated to Rumah Anak Yatim Belaian Kasih Ulu Langat.

If you need to know more about the tix, please email fiena5@gmail.com.

Im going to upload a video teaser soon. So stay tuned ok.
Come come, lets give back to charity in style. :)

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no-cheat update

2011-12-03T09:12:00.008+08:00

salam. hehehe. finally im here to update the blog like betul2 update.

how are you guys doing? hopefully fine i guess. ive been very busy with reflection and abiya muslimah. so sorry.

so many things happened in the past few weeks which i dunno where to start. okay. let's start with the first point.

KIDS
ahhhh..updates on the kids after so long!!okay. dani. yes. this boy. he has grown up really fast. he talks like an adult or shud i say like a makcik? :p yes. makcik. membebel je kerja dia. soon to be 3 next year in march. how time flies isnt? nway, am planning to send him to a drop off school. for 3 hrs mcm tu. i have few options but the top 2 options are beaconhouse and small wonders house. both are in subang. nearer to my place. anyone here send their kids to either one of the schools ive mentioned? dani has been scheduled to come for a trial class at small wonders on 7th dec. i like that place but so far im keeping myself with 2 options. fiena is sending her daughter to small wonders so ive been there once n ive looked at that place. love it.

and what about beaconhouse? few mommies from dani's playschool now(gymboree) has recommended beaconhouse to me. they have one in bangsar but i dont think so i'd drive all the way from shah alam to bangsar everyday when theres another beaconhouse at subang jaya kan?
planning to bring dani to beaconhouse one of the weekdays. called them up already and they said we can come anytime between 9-1pm. they are gonna have an open day on the 17th dec but i wont be around on that day.

as for dayyan's update, he's been calling me mammaaa instead of mummy. when i corrected him " mummy'. he then said 'mammaa!'. hehe. okay. whatever. sooner or later mesti boleh panggil mummy jugak. he now can understand instruction ie like "clean up, put that thing back, close the door, pick up the book, give it to mummy yada yada yada'. he can says many words dah. but this lil boy really likes to scream. if he wants milky milky,dia menjerit, bukan nangis ye. jerit. and he cant sit still. mesti nak kene bergerak.

:) he was saying "smaaa" which means "smile" ye. sorrylah if you are against this pic, kepingin anak girl terpakaikan anak boy shawl. :P

okay. we went to 2 birthday parties last sunday, lana's party(fiena's dot) and dani's ex-classmate, Chloe. Actually we had 3 but couldnt make it to anne ngasri's kids birthday party. sbb dah tak sempat. ahh.. we managed to take photos at chloe's party je sbb ade assistant nak amikkan. dkt birthday lana tak dpt cos i went there with dani je sbb dayyan dah moody and so, so had to send him back home.

photos!

chloe's birthday party. at one of the condos in Federal Hill. The place is so nice!

kids are having fun in the playroom

birthday girl

with yoko, chloe's mom. she's really nice. oh ye, hehee. she's a miss malaysia petite 1997. at that time i was err... 14 yo??

they have decorated the house with a christmas tree!

the birthday cake!

the families!~

hah. thats all for today's post. oh ye, i will upload a video tudung tutorial after this post.

dont forget to visit Abiya Muslimah and also dont forget to buy tix to go to Reflection Fashion Show Event. do email fiena5@gmail.com if you are interested to go!~

salam

update on reflection

2011-12-02T15:43:00.004+08:00

Here's an Update on Reflection

Alhamdulillah our BOOTH SPACES ARE FULLY BOOKED so we no longer accept any applications to open up a booth at REFLECTION FASH SHOW EVENT

Thank you so much to those who have made the payment. :)

Tickets are now selling

RM 50 for Fashion Show Event and Bazaar (RM20 for each tix will be donated to charity)

RM 5 for Bazaar only(RM1 will be donated to charity)

So Let's Give Back To Charity In Style

To inquire or to buy tickets to Reflection please email fiena5@gmail.com

Thank you.

update on reflection

2011-11-29T19:11:00.004+08:00

mintak ampun maaf segala bagai sebab terlambat lah nak update blog dah berminggu2.

my oh my. ive been so busy with abiya and reflection and macam2 bende lain.

and i dunno where to start!ive like so many things to update and to advertise and etc.

okay. let me start with reflection first. the date is now confirmed and it's on 15 jan 2012, at blackbox solaris dutamas. a one whole day bazaar and we have a 2 hrs fashion event. :)

u have to pay to go the bazaar and also to see the fashion show. but prices, of course, different. will let u know how much. anyway, some of the collection of the tickets will be donated to charity. will also let u know which Rumah Anak2 Yatim yg kitorg decide. :)

and... the crucial part now is.. we are looking for those who can do catwalk on runway. no matter whether u have or do not have any experience, provided that u have the groove to walk. kalau susah nak berjalan, tak dapatla kot. :)

okay. for those who are interested to join the catwalk, we need those who :

a-at least 163cm and above. but if u are 160, u can also try by sending in your details.

b-body measurement - 34,26,35 or yg lebih kurang mcm tu. :)

c- you must know how to catwalk. like seriously. with or without experience as long as u have a nice graceful walk.

if you think u fit in into these criteria above, do send in your comp card(if u do have any) or your details to me at tg.rinanda/gmail.

okay. thats the first thing.

the second thing is that, we are looking for volunteers who can help us during that day(for the bazaar and also for the fashion show). we need both female and male. :) if you are interested to be a part of us, do send in your details a.k.a name and age to my email add tg.rinanda/gmail

and the third or the last thing is:

we are selling booths for the bazaar. if you have an online blog or if u want to let go your pre-loved items, you can email me at the same address. tg.rinanda/gmail . i will provide all the details in the email a.k.a the price for the booth and etc. :)

come come lets be a part of Reflection. We'll be selling tickets soon(the price is very very affordable)

okay. i will write a new post for my normal updates.

Reflection

2011-11-21T17:33:00.002+08:00

Again. Reflection.

To anyone who doesnt have a clue on this, me and my friends from Ammara Hijabi are going to organize a fashion event for muslimah next year in Jan.

Some of the Designers or online bloggers that are going to participate are (besides Ammara Hijabi) Jezmine from Oldblossombox, us Abiya Muslimah, Rina Salleh, Ami Schaheera and many more. :))))

it's gonna be an exciting event esp for hijabis. Do stay tune for any updates. :)

nway, am writing this post because i'd like to say thank you to this girl, Lana for willing to sponsor. thank you so much.

yeah. thats the main reason for this post. We got a sponsorship ppl!! :) so anyone else who are willing to sponsor? do let me know ya. i will send u the proposal. :)

ah.. my kids are fighting over a train. gotta go!!!

new update on plain pash

2011-11-17T16:45:00.005+08:00

hello hello!!! :)))

have u girls visited Abiya Muslimah yet?

do visit now cos we have cotton candies plain pashmina with cotton candies colors!heheheh. :p

photos below during the photoshoot.we went a bit crazy because the colors are oh so yummy. :p

if u wish to purchase pls do so in Abiya Muslimah 's site ok. fill out the form there.

more colors for plain pash next week. :)

ade chili red, beige, peach and a few more. :)

AND DONT FORGET TO LIKE ABIYA MUSLIMAH 'S FACEBOOK PAGE. U CAN FIND IT IN MY BLOG- RIGHT BAR. :))

Let's Share - Mencari Jodoh

2011-11-09T21:47:00.005+08:00

Okay. at first i tot i wasnt going to publish this but on a 2nd tot, i think, i shud. n i will just let the power of the internet to help this fella. not gonna say anything more. good luck

Name*:	Daniel Sha
Subject*:	Mencari Jodoh
Message*:	Salam kenalan, Saya adalah CEO sebuah syarikat financial di Usj dan tengah mencari kwn/jodoh/tunang/isteri and juga spend rm2000 di iklan suratakhbar tetapi tak jumpa sesiapa:(harap siapa sudi membantu saya mencari teman hidup krn saya masih single umur 31,memiliki rumah sendiri di Usj ada card platinum bunglow land and financial stable,non-smoker,good health . Kalau siapa sudi kenalan kat saya kepada kwn yang masih single ,saya akan bagi upah .My intentions adalah ikhlas .Dalam soal cinta saya adalah bernasib malang:(Give love a chance!Bukan nak show off maupun insult sesiapa pun. I tengah mencari jodoh evey where but no luck most of the time ada orang punya but most girls won't tell and i have to prior into before discovering ada orang punya dan sudah kena main-main banyak kali:( ,sorry to trouble but will be great if you can assist in referreals thru your single friends? I bukan nak show off mau insult sesiapa pun .Maaf. I am trying my at most to find someone in my life but to no avail and my sincere hope if you can assist myself (similar Purseit of Happiness the movie) The act of kindness.As i just don't want to die alone.Maaf.http://youtu.be/3aUvYBX4qIs

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p/s mr. ceo. few ppl been asking ur email add. pls leave ur email add in my comment box.

New Update!

2011-11-09T17:21:00.006+08:00

Hello everyone! Assalamualaikum.

oh my. i shud have told you guys that Abiya Muslimah has a new update so dont forget to visit the blog. :) visit je pun jadi lah. show us some support pleaseee??? :)

we have updated with new printed limited shawls. Contoh seperti di bawah. :p

But this shawl is sold out edi. :P sorry

and to those who already sent their details regarding on the "model search", i'd like to say many thanks! my partners are doing their part in choosing a model that they think suits the criteria. the thing is we are looking for a volunteer/volunteers *since we are new in this business* and they will be given a token of appreciation. nway, we like a few resume and if there's a good news, we'll get back to u ok. :))

In the meantime please visit our website. :)

next week we'll be updating on plain shawls.warna lebih kurang seperti dibawah. arent they look like cotton candies???and we have sooooo many colors for u. not 5, not 10 and even not 15!we have moreeeeeee. :) but will release bit by bit. so stay tuned okay!

till we meet again in the next post. i promise you!

We Are Looking For

2011-11-02T13:38:00.005+08:00

Salam and hello readers!~

how are you guys been doing?

nway, this is just a short post.

I'm looking for someone who can pose in front of the camera or indirectly means that u like your photos to be taken. :) sounds vain? dont worry. im like that too. :) hehe.

This is for Abiya Muslimah and we also might b using you for our big event next year. :)

Do let us know if you are interested by send in your details:

Name
Age
Body Measurement
Height
Shoe Size

We prefer those who wear tudung or at least u are willing to wear tudung during the photoshoot.

And last but not least, PLEASE INCLUDE 2 photos of u:

-CLOSE UP
-FULL BODY

Pls send to abiyamuslimah@gmail.com

Thank you

Reflection

2011-10-31T17:28:00.006+08:00

oh yeahhh.. hello everyone!

Im here to update my blog. Like finally! U must be wondering whats with the title right?okie. Ive mentioned here before about organizing an event(which will be told what sorta event soon)with my friends and the name of the event is Reflection, right?oh wait, I havent told u guys about the name yet. hehe Sorry. So yeah, an event which is called "Reflection".

This is a Project of Ammara Hijabi and my role is the co-organizer together with my good friend, fiena. and both of us is called 'the insiders'. hahahahahah. ala2 poys a bit but it's better to have a name rather than nothing kalau tak susah orang nak refer kepada kami.

Nway, we had a videoshoot for a video*duh* for this event. It's like a teaser for the event and we can also use it to get sponsorship. Anyone of u yg teringin nak sponsor? :p lemme know. Reflection is like my 'baby' besides Abiya Muslimah of course. So once the video is done, i will post it here. :) and oh ya, we might need a number of volunteers, I will advertise it here soon, once Ive told what kind of event it is. Tapi if anyone nak teka, just be my guest. ;p

So the photos below is during the videoshoot, ade a few je. We had 3 videoshoots but photos below just utk 2 video shoot je. The 1st and the last. 2nd shoot involved Maria Elena and Pastelina, tapi i tak dpt join due to some reasons.

So let me start with photos during the 1st video shoot.

Ammara Hijabi in action. :)

Rina Salleh in action. :)

me and rina salleh. :)

haha. sempat lg tukar baju. :P

Ami Schaheera in action

Mrs.Imran from Nilam Boutique in action
Jezmine from Old Blossom Box in action

And a few photos during the 3rd videoshoot. :) tak banyak sgt gamba because time ni i pulak kene shooting for the insiders scene and also Abiya Muslimah's scene.

Me and amal. :) im wearing casual outfit for Abiya Muslimah's scene

Partners of Abiya Muslimah with our model in the middle wearing orange shawl. oh ye, we are wearing Abiya Muslimah's shawl. :)

Jeng jeng jeng. The Insiders. :) fiena is 5 months pregnant. nanti time event confirm memboyot
The Organizers. Ammara Hijabi and The Insiders.

haaaaaaaa...last but not least. This event insyaAllah will involve Hana Tajima. So this is during our discussion at La Bodega. Thanks to bestie, put(left) for helping us to get Hana, :) love ya!

okay. I seriously hope that this event will turn out to be successful cos this is gonna be my first big event ever, and supports from readers is much needed!!! :) I will reveal what is the event soon ok. sooonn.

In the meantime, pls visit my online blogshop Abiya Muslimah and feast your eyes with our pretty shawls. :) dont just feast lah, beli terus. heheh. :)

Salam~

My boys

2011-10-20T03:09:00.001+08:00

They never fail to make me smile, even in the situation above..

I just bathed them n get them dressed,then I went to my closet to put on my clothesl. Suddenly I heard a loud sound n I rushed out frm the closet n I saw all the honeystars cereals were lying on the floor.

Dani told me, 'dayyan buat' which I guess it's true. But he was the one who took the tupperware from the cabinet. Tapi yelah. Budak2, nak makan..asal boleh capai je, soo dia capai je la. When I saw it, I was babbling n scolding them while holding my blackberry n I managed to snap a photo of it. Dayyan on the other hand, was too busy picking up the cereals n put it in his mouth n tried to hide it there before I can clean up everything. Takut sgt mummy tak kasi makan.

Dani pulak sebok pijak2 n crunched the cereals. Adoi..satu makan,satu pijak. I just took my bath n went sweaty again.takpela.at least I gt to burn some calories. :p

So boys, when u r old enough to read my blog, pls remember all these things tht u've done. :) comel sgt but at the same time, giving me headaches. Hehe. Love u both.
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Halfest Fashion Show Event - YODA

2011-10-17T16:44:00.004+08:00

helo helo!

how was your weekend?mine was great. 2 weddings on saturday n yesterday i went to PWTC to support my friends, sarah n amal for participating in a fashion event organized by Halfest. nway, YODA stands for Young Designers Arena. They have a competition tapi kwn i tak participate in the competition, my friends just tunjuk their own collection. nway, they are the owner of Ammara Hijabi in case if u girls penah terbeli baju or tudung from them. :P

So, they invited me n fiena to come to support them. :)

Above picture is the stage. Me and fiena get to sit at the round table that is full with yummy food.. :)) thanks again to sara n amal for inviting us. but we didnt eat much cos too busy taking pictures n complaining on how bad the quality of the pictures that we took. tangan gegar lah, camera tu lah ni lah. ahhaha. but the most annoying thing is when u had found a great angle to snap, u press the camera n walla, ade orang lalu dkt depan. takpun ade org dok block view. ape2lah. but at least i managed to get a few photos. however i upload sikit je dkt sini. not all. :) sorry.

if am not mistaken for this particular design, the designer has collaborated with arfah batik.

below is diff. tak ingat i. sorry

i kinda like the designs in the photo below. the designer combined both chiffon and lace together. esp dkt part kain bawah tu.

and finally presenting Ammara Hijabi Collection. my fav-the 2 designs in the middle.

I love the perplum(not sure how to spell) top

for this one i like the bottom part. 2 tone chiffon.tapi dalam gambar tak nampak sgt sbb kene block dgn orang.

The designers. Sara and Amal. Good job girls!

After the event, we went to Ammara Hijabi's booth which was located in dewan tun razak 1. jauh jugak berjalan tapi sebab nak support, kami pergi je. and walla. thats me, amal n fiena. hehehe. in this photo im wearing ammara hijabi's long dress.

dimana ada cermin, di situ juga boleh camwhoring. :P

me with the designers. :))) this is my outfit on that day before i changed to Ammara Hijabi's long dress. In this photo im wearing Abiya Muslimah's Plain Pashmina in Deep Red together with warehouse top and variante skirt. ;)

finally. us doing the thing that we r best at. camwhoring!~

okie dokie. thats all for today.i did enjoy myself going to the event. Everything ran smoothly cuma one thing that i dont agree is that, they have a belly dance performance which i dont think it's appropriate esp when it's actually a Muslimah theme. but, the dancer was realllllly good.

Last but not least girls, pls visit Abiya Muslimah for our new update today!. We bring u our Beaded Jubah Satin Collection. Do visit us! ----> Abiya Muslimah

p/s i will come out with a new hijab tutorial on the style that im wearing in the photos above. i did it by myself without referring to any video tutorial but i did google for one tapi tak jumpe. so last2 i had to figure out by myself on how to wear this style of tudung. P

soon ok. soon. till then, much love!~

Abiya Muslimah

2011-10-10T14:15:00.005+08:00

ello readers.

Here's one of the video tutorial on pashmina. well i know ive promised to give u a tuto on how i style my satin scarves. insyaAllah i will do it soon. but for now, lets check this out first. :)

this is a simple tutorial and im wearing a 3 tone pashmina shawl from Abiya Muslimah. Check out the page for more shawls :)

Please follow us on Facebook -- Abiya Muslimah

and on twitter ---- Abiya Muslimah

:)))

Let's Share - My Immature Boyfriend

2011-10-10T13:17:00.004+08:00

Here's another one.

Name*:	nelly
Subject*:	immature boy-friend
Message*:	hello kak rinie. how's dani doing? poor baby with ulcers and such. mom said, try to put the asam keping, cut into small pieces and put on the ulcers. it sure heals. a bit traditional though, and dani might not like it but my sil tried with her newborn and it did work. nonetheless dani is already a toddler aite? hugs for dani. sigh. well, Im here coz I need some shoulder to cry on. I dont have sisters. My mom isnt the urb-type-mom I can share everything with her. i feel as though youre the closest i have, like the sister i never have. i'm not married yet so this defo not gonna be about babies or marriage. im a 23 y/o working lady( mother thinks im a girl still) going 24 next year. and yes i already have a BF and we are quite serious (my first ever serious relationship) sigh. there you go, second sigh. there is just so much things that i wanted to lash out but i dont know where to begin with. OH I GOT ONE! MY BF IS THE SUPER MALAY-DRAMA TYPICAL TYPE OF MAN that i have to either choose him or my male bestfriend! and i CHOSED him therefore i should not be complaining but its getting to my nerve because 1. when im sad, i could not talk to my bestfriend because he kinda prohibit me from talking to my male bestfriend 2. he complaints a lot! whats up with guys nowadays. he complaints how little money he has, how out-dated his jeans is now, how people now wear fred perry and topman is so 2008. like he needs to change his purse coz apparently the purse was bought last 2 year. my goodness, its driving me insane 3. he gets jealous like forever. every single male friends of mine are labelled as my scandals. wtf? ****oh my god im sooooooo bloody mad******* 4. he rather goes out partying or clubbing than spending time in a bookstore with me 5. he always like forever condemns every piece of my outfit. fuck him off. he has problem with my clothes when my friends and even some male colleague of mine admire the way i carry myself and the clothes i wore. 6. whenever we wanted to go out, he would always spoil my mood and made me feel down about myself like i dont wear like celebrity(hello, i fucking am not a celebrity) IM SO PISSED KAK RINIE BUT I LOVE HIM, I KNOW I SOUND LIKE A MAD PERSON HERE BUT I REALLY CANT STAND HIM ANYMORE. I LOVE HIM I WOULD WANT MY FUTURE TO BE WITH HIM BUT I WANT HIM TO BE A MAN! HELPPPPP

my oh my dear nelly. im in no position to give u any advices or etc cos im not really good in it. y dont we listen to the readers n let them tell u what they think on this.

well, im pretty sure we r gonna get a few advices on "LEAVE HIM!" "DUMP HIM" "HE X DESERVES U" and so on and on and on. but yeah, i know that it must be really hard for u to just leave him right? u seems like u r sooo in love with him. but dear, how can u love someone who make u feel that way? just think for ur own future, do u wanna spend the rest of ur life with this kinda man? but again, like i said, i cnt tell u to do this n that cos in the end, u r the one who's gotta make ur own choice n think of whats the best for u. not me, not the readers, not anyone around u(except ur parents of cos) but just a question, do u think he will change? or do u think that u can change him to be a better person or at least a person that that u want him to be? (okay. this is more than just a question. :p)

okie dokie dear. be calm n think twice. in the end, it's all up to u.

much love!

p/s nelly if u need to talk, u can leave ur email add. just leave ur email add in my "fill out my form" column. :)

Let's Share - Rara Zikry

2011-10-10T13:02:00.005+08:00

Hello all.. first of all, thanks a lot for ur kind n warm wishes on dani's condition. his condition still the same. ive tried feeding him with ice cream tapi dia tak nak. he asked for nugget, gave it to him but after the first bite he spit it out. well i guess he is still in pain. but at the same time, last nite he managed to finish his milk twice. Alhamdulillah. i am so grateful ya Allah. when i saw he was drinking it like non stop till finish, i felt like jumping up n down. guess what, i cried. joy of tears. haha. i know i know mcm over sikit but im sure most of the mothers out there know how i feel.

today, tried feeding him again with rice n soup, sikit je la masuk soup. well i guess i just have to wait till he is fully recovered.

nway, it has been such a long time since anyone send me a proper problem or something that we can share together instead of sending me a form asking me this n that without leaving ur email add. to those who did that, im sorry dear, i cant get back to u. not because i dont want to, i just cant because u didnt leave me ur email add.

so below is something that i wanna share with you readers.

Name*:	anonymous
Subject*:	Rara Zikry
Message*:	Hi Rinie, I watched Nona today and they did a coverage on Rara Zikry. My heart went to her immediately. MasyaAllah she’s so beautiful and she reminds me of you. She was a fashion student but innalillah, last year March, God tested her, she went into comma for two months, and waking up to a Hypoxic Ischaemic Encephalopathy, in simple explanation : brain injury due to lack of oxygen because she had difficulty breathing. She couldnt speak, couldnt even move her bodies. Could you help spreading the words to help ease the burden of her family? Lets all pray for her. this is the link of FB, http://www.facebook.com/pages/Contribution-for-Rara-Zikrys-medical-expenses/108780165888786?sk=info Thanks Rinie. I know you have a good heart.

Anyone of u ever heard of Rara zikry's case before? i did. ive read so many tweets on her. u should go to her fb n check whats going on. kesian dia. she used to have a good life(i assumed according to what i read etc) but now she's in coma.

there's nothing else that we can do except to show her family some supports and at the same time let's pray for her recovery. oh wait, u can also contribute money for her medical expenses. please go to the link above. dont worry about how much u can contribute sbb kalau kasi sikit2 tapi ramai org yg kasi, lama2 jadi bukit kan? yg penting ikhlas. this thing can happen to anyone . just put urself in her shoes. :(

to the person who sent this form, thank u so much dear. ive been meaning to write a post on her tapi tak sempat2 sbb post pasal i sendiri pun tak terbuat. okie dokie.

ive received another problem that i wanna share with u readers. will post after this.

much love!

:(

2011-10-09T02:54:00.001+08:00

Dani is sick. He's having a mild hfmd. Don't know whre did he gets it. He started with high fever 2 days ago. But now the fever is gone except ulcers in his mouth.

He has like 6 ulcers or maybe more n he cnt drink or eat.this is the saddest part where I knw tht he's hungry n thirsty cos he's been asking for this n tht.but when I gve it to him,he said 'sakit.sakit' while pointing into his mouth.

He's been so cranky n sikit2 je ckp sakit. Makan pun tk boleh n it makes me so worried. Just now he asked for his milk.so I made n gve it to him.masuk je botol dlm mulut,merengek cakap 'sakit'.it took him almost half n hour to drink it n end up he only drank 40ml.lepas tu dh tk nk dh.sbb sakit. :( I just hope tht I cn tke away all his pains. :( dahla mmg fussy eater, bile jadi mcm ni,lagila susah nk makan. Aih. And I seriously hope tht dayyan won't get it. Kesiannyela kecik2 dh kena. But paed said it's too late to prevent cos the virus is already there even before dani falls sick(demam).

I hope my son is recovering soon.n hopefully dayyan tk kena.my oh my. :(
Amin.
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Dayyan's Party

2011-10-01T23:37:00.004+08:00

oh my. it has been such a long since my last update.

im really2 sorry peeps.i just dont have the time and usually once the kids are sleeping, i'll be sleeping too. sbb penat. :p but tonite, im trying to sleep late just to update.

so,we had a birthday celebration for dayyan cum open house since his birthday falls in the month of raya. alang2 kami buat sekali. and daddy celebrated his birthday 3 days after dayyan's. so celebrate la skali. this time around the wedding fairies helped me with the decos as i was too busy celebrating raya*poyo*.hahaha. so ape lagi. marilah tgk gamba. :p

before the party begins. balloons baru sampai.

this time around i hired the wedding fairies for the candy buffet table. sweet kan?? the theme on that nite is raya theme with blue n yellow colors.

all the sweet tooth candies

i like this butterfly chocolate. :)soo cute.

ahaa... this is a special cake made by my auntie but decorated by my father in law. he put all the flowers etc.ahhaha. as u can see it's written there "dayyan" in 3D. fuyooo..

and for this cake, also baked by my auntie but decorated by my mother in law. i like the color n the design. simple n sweet.

the favors

the foods on that nite. we have nasi briyani mastika. oh soo sedap.

mee jawa, tak sempat rasa cos was busy entertaining the guests.
satay. love love sedap!
see the chocolate cake?ahahha.also home made.

cake cutting!!! tapi yg busy n yg mcm birthday is the brother n daddy. dayyan buat bende lain. ahha

since it's raya theme, so ive ordered a cake with daddy n dayyan's pic instead of gamba ketupat. macam tak menarik pulak. kesian pulak dayyan.

the guests that came. my besties! thanks tinot n juju!besties besties! yeen n eyah. :)

blogger moms. nita n yaya. oh ye, yaya is my partner of our new business. dkt bawah nnti i tulis.

icha micha bestie. :P

nannoor.. thanks for coming!

fozz n put2. :)))

with the twins n their husband. dina n dini. :)

with pretty amal!

aira n fiza. fiza is also my partner besides yaya for our new business. :p
k.evi, owner of the wedding fairies, tini and najwa. :)

the mommas!

us. :)

the adorable birthday boy in yellow. :)) love u sayang!

okie dokie. i think tu je. btw in case if nak tau baju i tu, i bot the kain n sent it to my tailor. lepas dah siap baru rase mcm kosong so i sent to jezmine old blossom n asked her to add on some bows and pearls. :) terus jadi menarik.

btw, me, my friend fiza n yaya is running a new online business for muslimah. ya yaaa..dah byk org buat yada yada yada. but it's never too late for us to try our luck kan. actually, they set it up first, and i came into the picture a bit later. and now, today is gonna be the launch of Abiya Muslimah n we r gonna upload with our first batch-3 tone pashmina in our blog. pls visit Abiya Muslimah to browse. :) thanks thanks! support2 yee..

Happy 1st Birthday Dayyan

2011-09-18T09:55:00.001+08:00

Happy Birthday Putra Dayyan Nashwan. :) how time flies isn't? It feels like just ysterday I gve birth to him. Was in labor for 4 hrs, and after the 4th push, he's out. :)

And now dayyan is 1 year old. :) he can talk(of courselah few words kan.not 1 sentence),walk, run, climbing up on anything, bullying abang,switching on the ipad and many2 more. :)

So sayang, happy birthday to u again. I'll always pray for ur happiness n may success be with u always.. Moga jadi anak yg soleh, pintar dan bertanggungjawab. :) love u sooo much lil munchkin. :)

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Selamat Hari Raya!

2011-09-10T16:20:00.005+08:00

Assalamualaikum and selamat hari raya everyone! i hope it is still not too late to wish. :)

so how was ur raya? r u guys still in raya mode? me? yes. hehehe. im so sorry for lack of updates. im more to twitter right now cos it's simple and fast!

nway, dayyan is turning 1 yo soon.. how time flies isnt? and he's getting smarter day by day. same goes to his brother, dani. :) i cant stop talking about them. i could just go on and on and on. raya this year is more meaningful with 2 kids and plus dani has understand the meaning of raya, like visiting relatives from house to house, collecting duit raya, wearing baju raya, mercun, bunga api and etc. :) it's sooo fun!

and raya is moooorreeee meaningful than ever cos i can get to bergaya like gile2 cos this year am not pregnant or not even baru habis pantang. hehehehe. so agak berpuas hati di situ.

cume yg tak bestnye, after 3-4 days of raya, i can feel that ive gained a few kgs. ah.. just in a few days je kan?? but whatever lah.

so,ive uploaded a few photos. just a few. hope u guys enjoy it. :)

first day of raya is green. sorta emerald green. :)

as u can see, ive changed my tudung style because i felt that the style in the previous photo makes me look chubby.

me and pretty maya. :) dah besar kan?

2nd day of raya, blue and a bit of purple. :)

me n pretty fay. hehe. balik kampung, ibu's side at hulu langat. but takde sape dah sgt dkt sane. we went to 3 houses je but i snap photos at this particular house because this house look soooo like a kampung house. i like.

the cousins. :)

satu petang di hari raya. :)
he has grown bigger.. :)
the 4th day of raya. open house at ibu's so we have decided to be in pinkat our auntie's hse. me sil and baby maya.

me with my older cousins at my aunt's house.

bersama ayahanda tercinta. hehehe. my dad looks a bit like kolonel sanders, dont u think so? :p

so i guess, thats all for the raya pics. :)

nway, i just have to write this. me n my friends are planning an event in nov and insyaAllah i'll announce it soon once everything is confirmed. it's just that im gonna be a bit buzy but at the same time excited because this is gonna be my first 'baby' or event. hopefully everything will run smoothly and i seriously need supports from you readers. :) just a hint, it has gotta do with designers, fashion, an icon etc. :) and we'll be having a guest of hon during that event and im not gonna spill who is she/he going to be. but she/he is someone that i think, most of u readers know. :) insyaAllah will announce it here,soon.

on the other hand, if u think u miss me(if lah ye) or miss any updates from me, u can just follow me on twitter and my twitterhandle is tengkurinanda. u'll see me twittering regularly like everyday. :P

okay everyone. till we meet again. :)

Dayyan's progress

2011-08-26T21:47:00.002+08:00

At 11 month, dayyan is a little walker!yay. He can't stop tawaf in the room. :) good sayang..ur first raya dah boleh berjalan. Alhamdulillah..

So how's everything ppl?bet some of u had gone back to ur kg kan? Best balik kg. My timeline in my twitter is filled with ppl's tweet on balik kg yadaa yadaa.. :))

But on the other hand, sedih Ramadan nak abis.. :( no more berbuka puasa sama2. No more bersahur bersama2. No more pasar ramadan.. No more terawih bersama2.sedih kan?. Takpela.. Time flies. Tup tap tup tap next year raya lagi. :)

Nnti I update lagi ye.oh, I've received a few comments on my previous2 post tapi tk sempat nk approve cos I xbukak blog using the laptop or ipad. Ni pun update pakai hp.

Take care everyone. :)
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The trend

2011-08-22T13:37:00.001+08:00

So I heard that raya this year, the trend of tudung is turban. So I was wrong about tudung siti. Konon mcm tht trend buat comeback but nope. :p

Nway, I already have tudung siti so pakai aje lah.n plus I don't quite like with turban.it makes me look weird. Alaahhh..pakai shawl lilit je. Hehe. So anyone who plans to wear turban pls make sure ur face suits tht kind of style. Oh, but,I like the mini or the inner turban. Haaa..yg tu I boleh pakai. N u pakai la shawl mcm biase. But inner mcm mini turban.

So selamat membeli turban kalian2 semua. :p
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Raya is coming soon

2011-08-21T17:48:00.001+08:00

Yes. Oh. Salam everyone. :)

Raya is just around the corner n Ramadan is going to b end soon. :( sila2 lah kite tambah pahala sementara tinggal lagi seminggu.

Nway, how is your preparation for raya? Baju?biskut?semua dh siap?
I'm almost done.hehehe. Tinggal tudung tk berapa nk settle. N gonna pick up my kids baju melayu tomorrow. All biscuits are ready but this time kami tk order byk sgt. Sbb dulu tak abis pun..

Baju??don't ask me how many baju raya tht I have.hahah.but this time, 2 of my baju rayas sama dgn 2 of my kids' baju rayas. :p mummy pun ade hati nak sama baju raya dgn anak2 lelakinye. :p

So, anyone going back to their hometown?as usual, I'll celebrate hari raya here.we never go back to any kampung or etc even before I got married. Mmg raya sini. Sedih ke? Eheheh. Tk jugak, all my relatives are here. N now raya dkt kl pun meriah ok. Tak macam zaman dulu2(time I kecik). Boleh baring dkt tgh2 jalan.

Now, I still dunno on what design of tudung shud I wear?susah2 I pakai schanaz scarf je. Terbaik. But sometimes I wanna try diff thing.but this year it looks like tudung siti's trend. So I've bought a few to be wore on raya. Oh ye, what is ur raya theme this year? I mean, what color? As for ours, we have, dark/emerald green,pink,blue,and many more. :p sbb campur2.

And this is gonna be my 2nd raya bertudung. :) alhamdulillah.. Tapi kali ni raya kurus lah!hehe. Dh 1st raya after kawin, pregnant dani. 2nd raya, I just gave birth to dani so badan tembam lagi. 3rd raya, pregnant dayyan. N this is the 1st raya I kurus after I got married. :p and.. This is gonna be our 1st raya as a parents of 2 kids. Yeay!mcmmane lah nnti I dgn tudung confirm senget2. Haha.

And yeah, dayyan is turning one on 18th september. Just a month to go. But hey, I haven't wrote it here, dayyan is now officially walking! Dah byk dh dia jalan.cume kalau pakai kasut slow sikit. Hehe.

Okie dokie. Till we meet again. Still, selamat berpuasa n berbuka puasa everyone!

Nanti I update lagi. :))
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a friend's engagement

2011-08-07T09:11:00.004+08:00

helloo..
ive lotsa photos to upload. so lets start with a friend engagement. :)

elsa is my ex-unimate and also ex-housemate. and..got engaged to one of dd's close friend. what a small world kan?and the thing is, diorg baru start kenal lepas dah grad, dah abis U.hehe.

so..nothing much that i can write. photos je!

this is a cheat post.hehehe. konon update blog tapi gambar je. :p there'll be next post on photos as well. i buat sikit2 je ok. till my next post. selamat berpuasa!

the hantaran

hehehe.no no no. bukan fiena yg bertunang :p she was one of the dulang carriers. :p

with yana, my ex-housemate.

juju le. sape lagi

the sweettooth table. :)

and....this is elsa! sorry i cant publish more photos on elsa n the guy. takut mereka tidak suke. :)

2 kids under 2

2011-07-31T23:43:00.002+08:00

Ok. The thing is im really really pissed off right now cos ive lost my draft for the new post. So i have to write a new one, which is this one lah kan.

Nway, ive been meaning to write a post on this. Tapi delay punye delay sampai dayyan dah 10 mo. Okayla. Whatever. Just cut the crap n lets start writing now!

Ppl has been asking me the same q, how do i handle my kids where both of them is under 2 yo. When dayyan was born, dani was 1 year and 6 mo. He's not even 2!. I was having quite difficult time to divide my time. Sometimes i used to feel guilty towards dani bcos he's too young to be a big brother. Alhamdulillah when i was in my confinement, dani didnt gve me a hard time. Sampaikan i terfikir dani ni tk jeles ke? Tkde perasaan ke? Or dia dah tk syg mummy dia? And mcm2 lagilah. Yelaa...org dlm pantang pk bukan2.

But. The jealousy, the clingy part and the -seeking-for-attn part evolved when dani has understand that dayyan is a new member of the family. Tht was like after pantang or 2 months after dayyan is born. Cthnya, he wants to bathe in the baby bath-tub. He wants to sleep in dayyan's newborn bakul, he wants his milk when he sees dayyan is having his.

Up till now, dani nak tido with me. Nak mummy pok pok when he's sleepy nak mummy tu nak mummy ni n sometimes i had to give dayyan to the maid sbb dani dah pandai nak mintak smpai menangis2. Tapi skrg ni pun dayyan dh pandai mintak jugak. Lagilaaa kesian kan..

So, ive read in a magazine, n i think i shud share it with my readers. One of the techniques tht these westeners suggested us to do is to explain to your toddler n try to make them understand. If they xunderstand, its ok. At least u've tried. N maybe if u try everyday lama2 anak u fhm. The most important thing tht u need to monitor is your child behaviour. Pls pay extra attention to changes in their behaviour. Example like, your eldest child might throw a tantrum when he sees u picking up the baby. Dulu2 dani tk macam tu, but skrg adela sometimes bile i nak carry dayyan, dia pun nak kene carry jugak. Bile i tgh feed dayyan, dia pun nak time2 tula jugak. Yeah..sometimes it's tiring when u have to face this kind of behavior like 24/7. Esp when u r a SAHM. U'll have to face this like pagi petang siang malam. Nak2 mcm dani ni, still bangun malam utk minum susu, minimum 2 times. I have to gve him milk at night sbb dani susah sgt nk makan. So kalau i tk kasi susu, or train dia utk tk minum susu malam, mmgla dia tk cukup makan.. Ahhh..this is another topic tht i will discuss in my next post. Eating Dissorder.

Next-pls remember that ur eldest child is still a baby or needs attention like a baby bcos they in fact still a baby!geddit?no?hhehe.i rase ayat tu berpusing2 but nway im sure u all fhm kan? The thing is, they r too young to understand why does the newborn needs extra attention from u? And u have to explain to them like evryday. Thts what i did to dani. Tapi kdg2 tu tak tahan sabar jugak bile dia buat perangai. Sometimes termarah n lepas tu menyesal. :(
So the suggestion tht i read from expert is u have to hold and cuddle your oldest as much as possible. The idea is to show him tht u still love him by giving the same amount of physical contact that he sees you giving your newborn. Oh yeah..ive done this and still doing it. One hand feeding milk to dayyan n the other hand pok pok dani. Thats y i dont have time to update my blog cos my hands are too busy. Tell u tht ive carried both of them at the same time for a couple of times. Bcos if i tk buat,dani menangis2 n sometimes i cnt stand the crying and the whining. Its making me crazy.

The last one is to give an undivided attention to ur firstborn. Yg ni mmg dani dah byk sgt dpt rasenye. Sbb bile nak tido,i have to put him to sleep. Bile pegi school, i have to be with him. Kalau org lain yg masuk class dgn dia, dia menangis nak i masuk. A bit too clingy isnt? Thts y am planning to send him to a drop off class. Am looking around. The nearest n the best. So back to the topic. Kepada sesiapa yg takde maid nak tolong ke ape, maybe u cn ask someone else to take care of ur newborn n spend a quality time with ur firstborn. Bawakla dia pegi kizsport ke ape ke.hahah.contoh ok. Or maybe just spend your time with him in a room. Baca buku ke, buat art ke ape ke, just giving some ideas.

So..nak kata sekarang ni i dh terer or dh expert mmg takla kan. I still have a lot to learn and i am still learning, from tv, magazines or internet. Frankly speaking, up till now ade je sometimes i rase penat sgt, rase marah or even stress. Yes yes. Maybe some of u who r reading this wud say tht i have nothing to be stressed about cos im not working. But u cnt jump to tht conclusion, bcos being a sahm is not as easy as u think it is. 24/7 with ur kids. 24/7 dgr diorg menangis (gilir2), ragam tu ragam ni n plus dgn dani ni yg sgt susah nak makan. Berperang nak kasi dia makan. Everyday! Nasi putih mmg dia tk sentuh langsung. Mane u tk risau or stress. Dahla badan makin kurus, hari2 pulak nak nugget. Tu pun bukan homemade, nak yg frozen takpun mcd. Gile kan? But i have no choice. Since that is the only food yg dia nak makan, i have to gve him. Kalau tak,mmg tak makan. Buat nasi goreng ke, nasi ayam ke ape ke, dkt rumah mmg susah nak makan. Dkt luar pulak ikut mood. Eh.okie. Im supposed to write this in my next post.

Okay everyone i have to go now. I hope this post helps. Walaupun sikit harap2 membantu. N i pun rase lega bile dh tulis mcm ni. :) jadi, Selamat menyambut ramadan dan selamat berpuasa. :)

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Quick outing

2011-07-15T14:11:00.001+08:00

Last week I went to klcc with my fav girls, juju and jaja. :) it was a quick outing and impromptu since I had to find something for something something*shhhh.secret*.

So I got what I wanted and happy with it.oh,it's not for me. Hehe. Nway, we had tea at ben's n this time I ate desserts je. :p sbb dh kenyang. But desserts pun, dua.hahaha. Rojak buah and banana sundae(I totally forgot the name).

I'm updating my blog using my handphone so the photos mite be tunggang langgang a bit with no caption under it.I can't put captions because it doesn't have tht option.I'm updating using email so the photos need to be uploaded thru the attachment.geddit?no?tak kisahla.heheh. Tp tulah. Tkleh letak caption.

So photo will be at the upper part of this post. What I can say, there is a photo of my sundae, rojak buah, and jaja's macaroni and cheese. And also a photo of me and juju and. me alone. With new style of tudung.:p

Okie dokie. Gotta go. Need to feed dani.
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I'm annoyed

2011-07-11T21:18:00.001+08:00

I is now annoyed is annoyed and annoyed because I can't upload photos in my post n the reason is-i don't have enuf storage to do tht.

I don't think so most of the bloggers have purchased the storage package tht being offered to us in order for them to upload their photos aite? It must b something else.ugh.

Bye first. Ttyl.
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And again

2011-07-11T17:03:00.003+08:00

They found a snake in the karaoke room! This is the 2nd time a snake broke into our house. :( 1st time was an ular daun n guess who found it? Dani. The snake was hanging on our grill.I was using the laptop n dani came to me 'eee mummy.snake.snake'.
I tot he was just playing or pretending there's a snake, so I tried to play along.followed him, walla, it was a real snake. Scary isn't?luckily dani knows what a snake is. Called jabatan perhilitan, they cme n took the snake.it's non poisonous. Ular daun.very thin but very long.

N this morning, again, a technician came to our house to repair the house phone(in karaoke room). N he found the snake, dkt dgn my kid's toy box. It was an ular tanah.I pun tktau ular tanah ni mcmmane.but I think it's non poisonous as well.

Okie dokie. I'm trying my best to update my blog.hahah.oh ye. The photos above r the photos during dayyan's 2nd round of casting for mami poko's advert.but confirm tk dpt sbb he doesn't wanna move around cos he found a new toy. :p if u cn see, I was holding dayyan's fav toy, gymbo so tht he'd crawl to me.but naaa-ah. He didn't. Too busy with a new toy that they gve to him.

Orait. Take care!
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i know i should have..

2011-07-07T15:48:00.003+08:00

yes yes. i know i should have used my handphone to update the blog. :) i will try to do it after this ya. i promise.

nway, have i told you that dayyan can stand up when he's 8 months old? :) now he is 9 months n is trying to walk. he knows how to go down from the bed. so i dont have to be worried. cume kene monitor sbb dia kadang2 parking bontot dkt tepi2 katil. ahhaha. he likes to climb up the bed as well..

last 2 days we brought him for the 2nd round of casting for mami poko's advert. first time lepas. 2nd time failed because he doesnt wanna act. :P kite suruh crawl dia membebel2 sambil main dgn toy. yeah. he found a new toy so he got distracted n doesnt want to move. :p maka dgn itu secara rasminya dia tak dpt masuk. haha.

this is gonna be a short post sbb takde ape nak tulis. bile u dah kumpul mcm2 bende nak tulis, u pun taktau where to start so last2 tak jadi tulis ape2.

oh ye. we have a 2nd family photoshoot done by the same photographer, creative litebox. so below are a few of the photos. :)

:) the new photos of dayyan. hehehe. he has grown big kan?? :) and dani is getting taller but not fatter. :P kurus je. makan memilih. okay. enjoy!

thats my niece. maya. comel kan?? :)

nway, the theme was supposed to be color-block.haha. poyo i know. but whatever. selagi the trend is still in, y dont we do it kan?

ok. maybe some of u might leave a comment and ask me what shawl am i wearing n etc. so let me write it here. im afraid i wont reply ur comment anytime soon.

shawl- schanaz scarf by ami schaheerea from shop sputnik. my headband from AzuraAzwa. u can google for the name. and the headband was custom made for me. tops n jeans zara. shoes pedro.

okie dokie. gotta go!

oh no

2011-06-29T16:38:00.002+08:00

sorry readers!life has been crazy. with the kids school, both of them are attending more than 1 class.hehe. sorrrryyyy for not writing any new post. as u all know, we had a jumble sale last sunday it alhamdulillah it went well. managed to sell some of the clothes. n this morning we just sent the remaining clothes from the jumble sale to rumah anak yatim.

and ive been fasting like everyday. yes. i have more than 10 days to ganti. :p dani is now sleeping(alhamdulillah) and dayyan is trying to touch the keypad!how can i type when they r around?malam2 dah mengantuk..

okay2. seriously i need to go now. he's been biting my leg. i mean, dayyan. later peeps. sorrryyy

JUMBLE SALE

2011-06-22T09:30:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum and hello everyone!

Me and my family are going to do a Jumble Sale event this weekend.
The main event on that day is "Karnival Jom Sihat" by WorldWellness Network Sdn Bhd and at the same time we are having a Jumble Sale and some of the money will go to charity :) dont miss out and i'll be there too, of course. am selling lotsa my clothes. :p

There will also be a free Health Check up, Promotion Product of WWN, Lucky Draw Prizes . :)

DATE : 26TH JUNE 2011
VENUE : WWN HQ , No 16, Jalan Othman, Seksyen 1, Petaling Jaya, 40000, Selangor
TIME : 10 am - 2pm

Jumble Sale - Stuff to let go, Kurungs, Kaftans, Jackets, Blazers, Tops (from xs to l), Shoes, Handbags and many more.

Do come and support us pls!

Teaser- a few kebayas that i wanna sell off. :p

MAP TO WWN HQ.

a baby shower!

2011-06-14T10:58:00.006+08:00

i always loveee baby shower!be it mine or my friend's. i just love it because of the decos, the theme and the games! :) so..yeah..last week i went to a baby shower of a friend, to be exact, she is tini's(my friend) sil. it was held at their place and the theme is blue n yellow. i just tau pasal blue but not yellow.dah sampai baru tau.if only i know, i'd wear something blue n yellow!hehe. ape2lah.

went there with sil and brought along dani. senang sikit because dani is big enuf to join us. tak meragam and all. :) nothing much that i can write on this post. just have a few photos for u readers to enjoy. :) have fun! :p.

so let's start with the decos first. :) as u can see, the mom to be is expecting a baby boy! :)

decos done by k.evi from The Wedding Fairies. :) cantik kan??

all the close ups

look at the 4d image of the baby.. :))) so adorable.

us with the mommy to be,E. the one in the middle

the kids r doing their own thingy. left is dani, the one in the middle is zara, k.evi's daughter and right is nia. tini's daughter.

me and sil.we had to wear the red indian's featherheadband on our head because we won the first game. :P actually sil won it. i no 2.haha

kids. nia is a year older than dani.

me with the preggerino. :P tini's pregnant her 3rd child. so fast kan??i mmg takleh kejarla..plan to get pregnant again end of this yr. insyaAllah.

with the deco.

some of the guests. :)

these 2 kids r always with their bottle. sorang dgn princess bottle sorang lagi dgn thomas n train bottle. :P

nia is so comel in her green jumper n hot pink leggings. :P

dani's making faces at the photographer.

games!

charade! my fav game so far. i mean our fav game so far. when everytime ade baby shower among us, we have to play charade.

as u can see from the photo above, ade diapers kan?it's a prop for another game. i didnt take photos bcos too busy playing.haha. there r a few types of chocolate in the diapers and all u have to do is to guess what type of choc is in it. :) last2 we end up eating all the chocs. :P or to make it easier, maybe u can put a peanut butter jam, chocolate, strawberry or raspberry. so just guess what flavour of jam is in the diaper. :)

thats all for today peeps!hehe. see u in 2 weeks time.hahaha. i will try to update a.s.a.p. ive promised to a few of my readers and friends to make a post on tudung tutorial. insyaAllah soon ya.. thanks!

am wearing zara's jumpsuit and cardigan. :) very comfy!

an apology

2011-06-01T14:05:00.005+08:00

hey ya!im soo sorry for the lack of updates(yeah i know ive been writing this in most of my posts. :p) and sorry that i havent replied of some of the comments. i'll be replying soon ya.. and for those who has asked me questions thru my FORM on the right sidebar of my blog, pls do not do it again ya. because that form is meant for anyone that wanted to share anything?problems with me n readers.(thats y theres no column for u guys to leave ur email add meaning that if theres no email add, how can i reply to u? :) ) sorry. if u do have any questions pls email me at tengkurinanda/gmail.com. ive received a form asking me on rxlite but she didnt leave me an email add so..i cudnt reply to ur ques dear. :) can u pls email me back? thanks a lot.

so how's life goin on with u lately? as for me, not much. busy with the kids as usual. sbb tu kdg2 leceh nak update. my uncle passed away(i wrote in my previous2 post). went to a wedding and emm..ape lagi ea..

so..i owe u guys photos kan?(ehem.since ive no idea on what to write.actually byk.but dunno how to start.konon..hehe.) so why not i entertain u guys with photos? :p

okie dokie. let's start with a wedding that we went too. it was held at Marriot Putrajaya and it was a nice wedding. the bride is sooo pretty and soo slim.hehehe. ive known her for 10 yrs dah. she's a family friend of my friends n DD. basically pusing2 situ n kenal sama2 diorg.

what i wore on that nite. look. it's my kain songket that i wore during my engagement. dah 5 years dah but the songket still look nice!!!yeah..songket terengganu mmg cantik..and this color is my favorite. :) i paired it together with a black top and.... schanaz scarf by Ami Schaheera ! yeah..i have 5 colors of her scarf. go check out her website by clicking on her name above. :)

dah lama tak letak gamba dd. :p
with tini n put. :) (hehe.pusing2 muka diorg jugak dlm blog ni.)

and..here come the bride n groom!

okay. thats it for the wedding. tak banyak gamba i snap because we were too busy enjoying the wedding, the foods and the gossips. :P

next gathering. with my close friends!! this time we went to Marmalade Cafe at Bangsar Village 2. this is my first time here and i always hear about their desserts but on that day i forgot to eat one of it. was sooo full because on the same day it was fay's birthday so we had nasi briyani during the small celebration. mane tak penuh perut. :)

juju. :) im wearing a teal color top from MimpiKita. i like the color, so soft and a scarf from iamjetfuel. bot this more than a year ago before i pakai tudung lagi.time tu tgh prepare n kumpul scarf sbelum pakai tudung. :) this is among the first scarf that i have.

with nia, tini's daughter. she has grown up right?now she can camwhoring with us. :P

the 'charlie's angels". :p tini pls. i gunting jugak jari jemari tu.haha

the best lasagna ever(to me).if u dont believe me, go and try it. okaylah. maybe to some of u it's not the best ever in town but it's still delish!

next is fay's small birthday party. oh,i shud have put these before the photos at marmalade!takpelah. dah letak malas nak tuka. so..fay has turned 4! and look at her. besar dah kan?she used to be the face of my blog..hehehehe.. but eversince i have my 2 boys, kurang dah i letak gamba fay. so happy birthday elfayra raihanah(her full name is longer than this).

before her birthday i called her and asked her what does she want?she said she wants a barbie(last year pun she asked the same thing). so tak kisahla, i still bought her a barbie. a big one with those baju yg byk2 tu ok.hahahaha. lepas geram..yelaaa..anak saya mane main barbie. :P

fay with her siblings n cousins(my family and her mom's side)

look.hehehe. my 2 boys r wearing the same t-shirt. :P

okay. thats all on fay's birthday. next is, a breakfast session with my besties put and azmi. :) we went to la bodega empire n had big breakfast!!!!yeah..again..ahahhahahaha. their big breakfast is the best in town.ahahhaa..i know i am lame cos everything is the best in townbut trust me, sedap.

this is azmi's. i forgot to take mine(scrambled eggs instead of omellete)

and... next!!!
oh btw

do u guys know what is 'in' now? color-blocking!!yeah..i jarang follow2 trend ni but for this colorblocking trend, i just looooovvee because i loveeee colors!heeee???alasan apakah?

so this is my first attempt.ahhahaha.not so colorblocking because there's only 2 colors-green and orange but still..i managed to dig out alllll my confidence to go out wearing this!

this is the look that i copied from a magazine. :P minus the purple top of course. i didnt dare to put on more than 2 colors. :P kalau cun betul2 takpe. photos below is gucci's. :) sooooo gucci isnt? but mine r zara's je.hehehe. go n check out zara's new collection. full of colorblocking stuff! me like me like!!!

actually, takde ape pun. me n familia went out to gardens and bought the kid's pj's. they have outgrown theirs. dayyan pun takkan asyik nak pakai baju abang je kan. he deserves to get a new baju as well. :P and check out dani's new shades/aviator. hahahhahaha.

he asked for it. daddy was paying n saw this aviator at the counter. showed it to dani and he asked for it. at first i tot he might doesnt want it because ive tried to buy him those cartoons sunglasses ie toy story mickey mouse etc yg dkt toys r us tu. ive tried 3 times but he's not interested. he looked at it n then he said no. meaning that dia tak nak la. so when dd showed him the shades i was in doubt. but alih2 dia nak pulak. memilih ok. he said 'macam mummy'. yeah..sama la kot. mak dia pun shades besar n bukan kartun. so dia pun tak nak la kartun2 ni.

senget. but still managed to pose. oh. tell u what. the next day his batang hidung biru..hahahah. sbb nya dia takde batang hidung so susah nak sangkut shades tu. so what he did was tekan shades tu or kembangkan hidung.ahhaha.alih2 lebam. :P but now not anymore bcos i told him not to press hard. sangkut je dkt telinga.

and..guess what did i get?hehehehe.. a new purse. purse i mmg dah buruk. the last thing that i always forgot to change is my purse. so on that day dd told me to get a new purse. :P thanks dd!

ahh...last skali!!! do u guys know that we r a returning/loyal customer of kizsport empire?hahahah. pagi2 kalau dani n dayyan takde class dkt gymboree kami akan menuju ke kizsport. takde org langsung so tht place is like our own playland. :p

dayyan gigih.hehe

dayyan gigih lagi. he climbed up sampai atas. :)

dani. :)) (kizsport)

sempat la stop main n makan dulu n then continue main. :P mata kecik sebelah.haha

hi mummy's readers! :) this is at the playroom at home. :P

nways, dayyan's tooth coming out!!upper-right. since his lower 2 teeth takkan tumbuh till gigi kekal, so his first proper tooth yg keluar is the upper ones. :) jadi sayang..sabarlah menunggu sampai dah sekolah rendah barulah gigi bawah awak tu tumbuh ye.. tulaaa.. sape suruh lahir2 dah bergigi dua dkt bawah tu.hehehe. :) (if u guys still remember, dayyan is born with 2 teeth.soft-natal teeth. but we had to take it out bcos of his gum. swollen n sakit so the dentist advised us to take it out. u can refer to my old post).

okie dokie. i hope u guys enjoy reading my post!! i know i know!!!Panjang sgt!hehe.

ciao!

Job Vacancy in WorldWellness Network Sdn.Bhd

2011-05-27T15:15:00.001+08:00

Head of Account.

Qualification:
-Degree in Accounting/Professional accounting qualification- 3 to 5 year(s) working experience with 2 year(s) of auditing experience- able to handle full set accounts- Proficiency in English and Bahasa Malaysia- Good team player, strong communication and analytical skills and able tolead a small team of accounting staff- Able to participate in operational matters.Please email detailed resume with recent passport sized photograph to rachelwwn@gmail.com or fax to 03-77838117.

Thanks.
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al-fatihah

2011-05-24T17:06:00.002+08:00

first of all, ive lost my uncle last saturday n i was there when it happened. he passed away while he was still at the hosp n we were all there with him during his last breath. cume time betul2 jadi je i keluar skejap to freshen up.the moment led called me, i knw that it was about him.

i was at the hosp since morning because the doctor told us that theres nothing more that they can do so all the relatives must be prepared. that morning, he can still talked. he asked me have i eaten and he told me "ayah terkejut smalam".terkejut because the day before arwah had difficulty to breath, so everyone tot thats the end of it.tapi tibe2 je ok. and alhamdulillah rezeki cousin i sbb dapat balik jumpe arwah before he passed away.

im still sad, because me and my auntie/uncle r really close. when i was a kid, me and my cousin, nisa, used to stay at their plae, sleep in their room and etc. thats y we called him ayah.me and my cousin used to follow them to penang and stayed at rumah persinggahan istana kedah yada yada and arwah was also one of the saksi for my solemnization.. :(

and on the same day, my close friend juju has lost her atok, and seniwati mahyon pun meninggal jugak. unfortunately, landslide dkt hulu langat pun jadi on the same day. so with that i would like to ask my readers to pls recite Al-Fatihah for

-Almarhum YM Major (R) Raja Ahmad Feisal Raja Aman Shah (my uncle) ,
-Allahyarham Haji Suboh bin Derup (juju's atok)
-Allahyarham Seniwati Mahyon Ismail (faizal hussein mom)
-the Orphans/Kids of Rumah Anak-Anak Yatim At-Taqwa Ulu Langat.

amin.

a big smile on my face

2011-05-16T15:31:00.003+08:00

this is gonna be a short post. :p

yesterday i gave a few kain to my tailor. 2 of them i bot from jakel for raya,n yeah i went there with my friend fiena n we both went like really crazy!we spent almost 3 hrs there. tgk kain, duduk sambil berfikir nak amik ke tak, try kain n amik gamba(girls). :p nways, do u wanna see the kain that i bot?hehe.sorry. not now. tunggu raya nanti je lah ok. tu pun kalau baju tu cantik.

ah..hopefully the tailor can follow what i asked her to do. bukan murah kain tu.huuuuu...once a year takpe.

oh. tersasar. nways think u mite be wondering what's with the title. heheh.yes!!i am that happy~i have big smilessss on my face!!because im soooo happy.

look at the pic below n guess what baju am i wearing? :p

IT IS MY BAJU NIKAH!! yes. baju nikah that i wore 3 1/2 yrs ago. that i didnt dare to try it again after ive tried it once i got dani n i cant fit into it. i was sooo devastatingly sad. sbb kain pun tak muat. sedih. and after that i tak try2 dah till last sunday after my tailor measured by body inches. :p

the moment she said "wah..u sudah manyak kurus. ini measurement sama mcm u sebelum kawin'. i was like. 'u serious??'. i still have a few kgs to loose. seriously. tapi the last time i timbang was like..err...a month ago?(time tu ade 10 kgs lagi)

so once the tailor went back(yeah she came to our house sbb dia kata saje nak jln2)i ran off to the guess room where i keep my wedding gowns. the first baju that i took is my baju nikah because thts the easiest baju nak pakai. no corset. nothing. just sarung n butang.

first button boleh. 2nd n the rest boleh n walla!!!i managed to fit into it again!frankly speaking i did overreact but i was sooo happy and still am!!!!terus snap baju tu. hahaha. kain tak pakai pun.mata bergenang sbb terharu(yeah yeah over but only those mommies know how i feel!!!)

so now am thinking of cutting the train so next time boleh pakai baju ni again kalau ade event(berangan next time boleh muat). so what do u girls think? shud i cut the train of my baju nikah? for my reception gown,the train is separated jadi takyah la nak cut2 bagai.lagipun baju reception is more liplap. u get what i mean?i dun think so i'd be able to wear it again unless kalau ade close relative nak kawin. tapi for baju nikah ni takdelah gemerlap sgt.. so shud i or shudnt i?

lagi satu saya berangan kalau ade anak perempuan saya nak pass down the gown. hehee.agaknye time dia baju kawin i ni betul2 dah old fashion. :p

ok. tu je nak cakap.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, I'D LIKE TO SAY THANKS TO RXLITE for this. :))) yeah. seriously. thanks. :)))))

*pls excuse me but im in a happy mood*

p/s yesterday i used the weight scale n yeah..i lost 4 kgs. wohoooo!!!!!!!!!!

oh btw, did u guys watch safiyya where me n my family were on it? :p

i got a wrong info

2011-05-03T11:51:00.001+08:00

hehehe.actually not a wrong info. i salah fhm.

someone told me that she saw me n family on safiyya last sunday. rupenye it was a preview. so the real slot would be this weekend. :)

stay tuned! :P

but am not sure on what day. either saturday or sunday.

it's time for a real update!

2011-05-03T08:19:00.008+08:00

okie dokie!

finally! lets update something!oh well, last week we had an event on my pretty niece's aqiqah and cukur jambul. :) my niece on dd's side. held at our own place and the theme is butterfly and pink! :)

it was a sweet theme and i was soo excited sbb slame ni theme bola lah, biru lah, ape2 yg berkaitan dgn baby boy. hehehe. but this time around it's a girl theme!

look at my 7 mo old boy. :p sukati je nak berdiri. :)) dah besar dah dia..

okay. normalla the owner of the blog will be the face of the post. :P me n dayyan*duh*

look at this!pink dais! im soo in love with the color. dais done by iqmal n misyon(rollem production). we've been using them since my wedding.

as u can see, there r a few butterflies hanging from above.looks like they r flying. :) nice..*oh i soo want a baby girl like now!!!!*

a big smile of my precious. happy la tu.

me n my sil. the mummy of the 'baby bride'. :P cute cuppacakes arent they?

andd...the bride of the day! Maya Arisya Sofea. :)) this is before she puts on her lil gown. :)

and there she is in the cradle. isnt she adorable? :) i want one i want one!

i am the tukang pengangkat bunga rampai dulang on tht day.
tudung from schanaz scarf . i have a few colors of schanaz scarf,love this satin scarf so much because it's soo easy to wear n so comfortable. :)
jubah bought in jakarta.

and the flowers for the deco..the colors r just my fav. sweet n soo feminine.

the butterfly cake.

as u can see. this is the dulang that i had to bring on that day. sebagai cukup syarat. ade kurma for tahnik, honey, bunga rampai also a pink scissor for the cukur jambul. :)

the butterfly deco on the dais. :)

the favors on that day. a hand towel with maya's name on it,a perfume and a tasbih all together in a rainbow colored sachet. :)

cukur jambul done by ayah mie. n nde forgot to do it!well, since im the one whos holding the tray camane i nak buat.kan?eheh

maya is enjoying her day.. :))

after the cukur jambul event. camwhoring time!

dani's having a good time outside the house. nampak mcm raya n balik kg kan?

again and again. :P

pakcik kenit ni pun perasan nak tumpang..hehe. u had ur time ok sayang. remember the orange cradle? :p

makan time. but i wasnt eating, just suapkan dani makan, mummy sebok borak.

while mummy is busy catching up some gossips with friends, dani's busy eating papadom

see??sempat lagi nak main2. :p

candid, not ready and kesian dani.ahhaa. this is the only pic that i have with my 2 boys. :)

okie dokie readers. hope u guys enjoy the photos and will update more. pls bear with my slow updates. :P thanks a lot for keep on reading n i will try my best to update a.s.a.p.

Us on safiyya.

2011-05-02T19:23:00.001+08:00

Yeah. Me n my familia were on safiyya today, but we missed it because I didn't know it's supposed to be showed today!

Now I have to find out when is the repeat or else must watch it at www.tonton.com.my.

Sigh.
Sent by Maxis from my BlackBerry® smartphone

...

2011-04-30T02:13:00.002+08:00

it's 2.13 am in the morning and guess what, im updating my blog. seriously, when was the last time i updated my blog early in the morn?

just a quick one before i go to bed. well, i found out something(dd found it out n he told me) which makes me feel soo mad like reallyyyy mad right now. how shud i put it into words? well, i dont think so i can because i doesnt want to make it a big issue tho deep inside im so angry n pissed of but maintain cool.

fuh fuh fuh. let dd handle it for me.

oh yeah, got a new bb and my old one gonna give it to ibu. :) yeah. my parents have a bb but it turned out that that new device sudah rosak(it was a present from someone) so i just feel obliged to replace the bb. which indirectly it means that dd will do it for me lor.hehe. thanks. love u mucho. next week is a mothers day. gonna give ibu n my mil a spa treat. biarlah mereka bergosip di dalam bilik spa itu. :p

p/s i just dont bother to check the grammar, vocab n etc right now because i want to shut my eyes n sleep!before the kids bangun for their milky time.

nite!

singapore trip

2011-04-15T21:49:00.006+08:00

hi everyone. sorry for the late update.am too busy with the kids.as they grew older they r making me busier. :p

so..last week, me and dd went to spore just for a short trip.well...just the 2 of us without the kids. :) i was soo reluctant to go because i cant leave the kids behind but at the same time i wanted to go to the universal studios sg sbb i mmg suke naik rides.hehe. the last time i naik roller coaster was many2 years ago. and at the same time we just want to survey the place so that next time can bring along the kids.

we went on weekdays, last tues and came back the next day. first day we checked in at the hotel then off we went to the uss straight. below are the photos.

in the plane. this book is hillarious. it tells u that being a 'supermom' is not as good as what people think. being normal is better than 'super'.hehe. it's good for those moms who think that they r not good enuf in taking care of their child. morale of the story,do not compare urself with other moms sbb anak masing2 lain2. and u tau whats the best for ur kids. not others.

helloooo singapore! :P as u can see, banyak gile kapal.
our hotel room. this is the only type of room yg available so amik je lah since we r comfortable with this hotel. tak penah duduk hotel2 lain. n the room is really big!sayang cume stay satu malam je. :p

look. we hav our own conference table.hahaha.

and there's a nintendo wii as well!
and this is the coffee maker that made my mil bot one just to put at home.tergoda..

ahaha.excuse me. :P

this is what i wore during the trip. comfy is the best choice for a long trip.

after checking in, we went here! universal studios. and yeah, i changed my scarf. hehehe

looks like we r at overseas. nice. go on weekdays. less ppl.
the second ride. jurassic park. just for warm up.

revenge of the mummy ride. my friends asked me to try this ride. okay. best. tapi skejap sgt. :P
this is the 'scariest' ride at uss. there r 2 rides.one is human and the other one is cyclone. the cyclone one is the one yg berpusing terbalik. :) as u can see, the one in blue color.

look at how big the chuppa chups is. hehe.

Garrett's Popcorn. the best popcorn ever. so gemuk2 and if u makan the next day pun still sedap lagi. ade a few flavours. caramel, cheese and salted popcorn kot. we bot the caramel popcorn. sedap

hheheeh..dkt sana juga ada RX. :P
we took the train from sentosa to scotts road(our hotel)

and we had dinner at our hotel buffet. the chef is cooking my carbonara. :p

my carbonara and grilled lamb with mushroom sauce and a lil bit of mint sauce. :P mint sauce is my fav!!

my all-time fav. sushi sushi. :)

the next morning. had breakfast before we go out for shopping! :p
checking out. u must dress smart in order to check out otherwise they wont entertain u.hahahah. :P seriously.they do have this.okla kan. so that takdela nampak selekeh ape. dress smart doesnt mean that u have to put on a coat or a blazer or etc.just pakai elok2 je.

me in front of the hotel before we go shopping. nways. our flight back is at 6pm so we had to leave our luggage at the hotel first.
shopping shopping!

hehehe..thanks to dd. :))))

finally at the airport
hello malaysia!hahah..macam laahhh jauh sgt.

so overall, it was a short trip but i really enjoyed myself. sekali sekala tinggalkan the kids okay jugak. n next time must bring the kids to the uss. tapi tunggu besar sikit because kecik2 mcm tak mengerti ape2 lagi. and what i enjoyed the most during the trip was, i had a goodnite sleep for 8 hrs straight with no interruptions at all.. :))))) heaven oh heaven!!!

x0x0! :)

dani's 2nd birthday party

2011-04-04T23:32:00.011+08:00

finally readers. i am really2 sorry for the delay. it took me about a week to finish doing this post.hehe. no kidding. u know la everyday time buat mesti kene stop2 skejap. so finally the photos r here. but i didnt upload all. semput lah nak menunggu. sampai tahun depan pun belum tentu siap.

soo..lets begin with the invitation card. :)

here's the invitation card designed by my own brother.

and..on the day of the party. see? the 3 lil rascals below were having fun in the playroom while waiting for the party to starts. i was outside busy with the preps. picking up the cake, the balloons, buying a few stuffs and preparing the decos.

the chocolate fountain for the kids which i didnt have a chance to taste it. :(
the pinata. at first ive ordered alex from madagascar pinata from this one event planner(the same person that i hired for the face painting). but she said her staff cudnt make it because he had to go back to his hometown for an emergency. so this one i bot from balloon buzz.

the balloon from balloon buzz and the cake from gateauxlicious

i was googling and found a cake similar like this so i specifically ask mardhy from gateaux to do the same cake.

the foods. catering. thanks to my mil. less one burden for me. during dani's first birthday party, i made the carbonara fettucini.hehe. this time takyah masak ape2. :P

on that day we served, kuey tiaw goreng, mee rebus tulang, sandwiches, chicken boxing, cendol and few kuihs

dani's getting ready with the face painting.

admiring the painting on his body.hehe

and this is how he looks like on that day. the hat he got it from my mil. bot in spore. if u go to the zoo spore u'll find this hat in many designs.

during the cake cutting. oh and this is me after i got my face painted. :P and dayyan is a baby cub. :p

few of the guests that came on that day. thanks a lot. :)

i just love this shot.hehe. on that day we have the balloon twisting as well.

me with besties. :)) thanks darls.

me with my nephews n nieces.

dani with his cousins. :)) kakak fay and riyadh.

with qaseh(dani's bff) from gymboree and fastrackids.

me with my old friends. :)) last met her on my wedding day. apparently she got married to our ex primary schoolmate.hehe

with k.emi. my senior from my secondary school

me with lea the pregger and her nia.

i just love this photo. dani was hugging ari the son of the jumpsac sling owner. :P nak jugak mention tu.hahaha

the birthday boy. :) he didnt sleep thruout the day because he was too excited.

the kids having fun playing bubbles at the garden

photos of the lil guests on that day. some got their faces painted n some did not. oh yeah. ni a few photos je. ade jugak yg takde gamba sorang2. sorry..

arent they adorable? :)

the gift from dani's bff's mum, qaseh. chocs with dani's face on it.supposed to give to the guests as favors but i decided to keep it.hehehehehehe.

favors made by my cousins.

maya oh maya! :D tido je thruout the day.hehehe

and finally mummy with dayyan. dah bukak costume because it was too hot on that day. he cant stand it.

okie dokie. thats all i think. i forgot to upload the photo of the favors.hahahaha. sorry lah ea. i cant find the photo. byk sgt.

nways, thanks to the guests for coming. some of them r my blogger friends. so if u r reading this post, thanks a lot. :) n thanks for the birthday presents as well. banyak mcm nak bukak hadiah kawin. ahhaha

:) and to dani(whenever u can read this), hope u had fun. and of course, u did have fun. ehhehe. n wajib because daddy spent his money n i spent all my energy on this. :P over tau. but yeah. i did everything because daddy was too busy making money so that u can have ur birthday party. :P over lagi.

we love u so much. dont forget that.

p/s sept birthday dayyan pulak. aduh. ape theme ea? :P

jgn geram

2011-04-01T15:06:00.002+08:00

hahaha. sorry2. soo want to update on dani's birthday party but i havent got the photos yet. malam ni baru nak dpt gamba. once dah tgk gamba n dah pilih will update soon. pls oh pls. jgn marah. :P

p/s i feel so energetic after drinking rxyoung. will write a post on this soon. :)

oh. yesterday had an interview with tv9 for young parents. will let u guys know later the date n the time of the show.

*hugs*

gonna update soon

2011-03-30T16:39:00.004+08:00

yes. yes. pls wait for awhile. gonna update soon on dani's party. :)

teaser. :p

Let's Share = Pemergian Adelia

2011-03-24T20:16:00.004+08:00

and...another email. not really a problem of the author but she just want to share something with us..

Name*:	suraya
Subject*:	pemergian my lovely 'niece'
Message*:	as salam rinie...dah lama jadi silent reader u..since u blom kawin lagi and anak sulung rinie sebaya dgn anak ke-2 saya..jika ada masa dan kelapangan boleh you just singgah kat blog http://pinkgoodness.blogspot.com my lovely 'niece' telah pulang ke rahmahtullah pd 16/3/2011 semasa di bwh jagaan nurseri di seksyen 10 shah alam..dia baru berusia 2 bulan 3 hari dan baru hari ke-2 dihantar ke sana...blog di atas ada buat batch sbg kenangan kepada arwah...jika rinie ada masa dan kesempatan..boleh lah baca kat blog tu yer...tq sbg panduan,pedoman dan pengjaran utk kwn2 di luar sana yg juga ada pengalaman / sedang mencari-cari nursery utk menhantar anak kesayangan...tq again rinie sbb baca my email..

to author, ive visited ur site. thanks for sharing. i was crying when reading ur post n the mom's note. devastatingly sad. all my prayers to the family, esp the parents of arwah adelia. she was such a beautiful baby. really a beautiful baby. send my love to the mom. i hope she's strong enuf to go thru all this. insyaAllah..kita mintak agar Allah bantu mereka. and to readers lets all recite al-fatihah for arwah. Al-Fatihah..

Let's Share = Life

2011-03-24T00:16:00.003+08:00

hello readers. here's another email that ive received.

Name*:	Dina
Subject*:	life
Message*:	I need to complain about my life to someone, its giving me too much stress . Like u , I'm a stay at home mom of 2 adorable kids. I used to go to uni with u n u definitly know me . I must say that I had a pretty amazing life and love life before I was married but it has all changed . I put on 20 kg , my babies are driving me insane with all the shouting , crying and mess . I'm tired all the time and at the same time I try to be a super mom n wife but that's not happening with 2 hyper kids who throws tantrums like nobodys business . My husband is a great man couldn't ask for more but sometimes he compares me with other moms n wifes who I know are super amazing , manage to cook , clean , wash , takes care of kids w/out helper, I hv helpers . I can't even cook curry , he deserves the best and I th! ink I'm failing miserably. I sometimes wonder how my life would be if I'm married to an ex or an old crush and that's a sin I know . I just can't stand the stress and feeling down about myself plus my mil is not exactly a dream come true . I need to lose some weight n feel good about my self again , I need to wear my armani jeans and feel sexy. I haven't seen my friend or hv social activities with any friends because am ashamed of myself , in fact when I bumped into them I actually make an effort to hide . Its time to change !! But I bloody don't know how toooooo !!!

hi dina. well..when reading ur email, i sooo can relate it to myself(only the part of trying to be a supermum n taking care of both kids r tiring and also on gaining weight). well well well..what can i say. once we r a mom, esp a stay at home mom, we definitely will go thru all these phases. i know how u feel on trying to be a supermum. yeah..and also on the weight thingy. frankly speaking, i dont really know on what to tell u because im having almost the same prob. but this is what this column is for right?.

to share n to let out ur feelings when u r not ready to tell this to a close friend yet because u dont want them to judge u. but dont u consider urself as lucky?u r married, a mother of 2, a stay at home mom.i rase ramai je other ppl who wants to be in ur position right now. :)) dont be ashamed of urself. theres nothing u shud b ashamed of(pandai je i ckp.i pun rase the same thing jugak :( ) but seriously. do u think u shud feel malu when u r actually a mom of 2?bukan senang nak jadi mak.n jadi mak ni mcm anugerah.we cant b ashamed of that.walaupun ade byk kesan sampingan cthnya berat badan meningkat ke ape. but we r still lucky.

what do u mean by 'its time to change'?u mean, on losing weight? hmmmm..yeah..the same thing goes to me as well. takpela.. kite try sama2 ok. :) if u feel like sharing2 with me, u can always email me as anon or boleh je u contact i(i bet u know how to contact me kan?) dont worry. dont be ashamed. i feel the same way too. so i wont judge u. n i think ramai jugak mak2 dkt luar sana yg rase the same thing. penat nak jaga anak, badan tak terurus, rase dah put on weight. susah nak kurus, n even comparing ourselves with other supermoms out there. mesti terfikir mcm how can they handle it n y cant we be like them..

:) okay dina. i hope u rase lega after sharing this with us. :) anyone out there who's having the same problem n wants to share it with dina?and me. of cos.

take care!!

Dani's turning 2

2011-03-21T20:41:00.005+08:00

:) today dani is turning two.

and to think that 2 yrs ago i was struggling trying to push him out. was in labour for 17hrs, no foods n drinks for 22 hrs,just a sip of ice cube, finally i managed to push him out after those long hours. :) but all was worth it. really worth it.

he's a gift from heaven and i just cant imagine how will i survive if he's not around. sangat naughty, panjang akal dan semua sampai kadang2 terpaksa sabar, penat dan mcm2 lagi. but still,like ive said, he's worth it. i wouldnt trade him for anything.

we've been thru a lot. walaupun baru je 2 tahun. i can remember how we were rushing to a clinic because dani didnt want to drink his milk for almost 24 hrs when he was 3 months old. how we were rushing to the hosp because he's allergic to farley rusk. ahha.boleh tak?badan dia jadi merah mcm kene gigit ulat. that was soo scary. really. freaking scary. i think i still have the photo.

i was there when he took his first few steps,when he said his first few words.still remember, besides "daddy", it's "ball" and "flower". flower boleh jadi first word dia kan?hehe.

and he started to walk properly when we went for umrah. byk dia berjalan. n we even celebrated his first bday at madinah. :) dani boy, u're so lucky! ur first birthday was at madinah!

one day when u can read this, pls remember that mummy loves u n dayyan more than anything. tho sometimes mummy scold u, it's not because mummy doesnt love u. it's for ur own good(ayat standard.hehe). so happy 2nd birthday to u. this year i know u will enjoy ur birthday party because u love everything that gotta do with birthday ie birthday cake, birthday song, birthday presents and even the birthday invi card that has ur face on it. :p

photos:

a little surprise from daddy after he got back from work.

since today is his birthday so we let him to play with the cake.puas hati dapat pegang n potong n main dgn icing.

just a small cake. at least ade cake cutting on the birthday itself.

last nite.

happy birthday sayang! :)

Let's Share = Annoying Friend

2011-03-20T15:57:00.003+08:00

salam. here's another problem that ive received this morning. thanks sheela, for sharing this with us.

Name*:	sheela
Subject*:	annoy friend
Message*:	salam.. hai sis.. i got a little prob but its very annoy me lah.. im a u student n i got dis friend yg suka btol brhutg tp x pnh nk byr.. i plak yg jd segn nk mntk.. sometime dia ambl ksempatan kt me n our friends bla we all shopping@ buy things.. dia akan tumpng sekaki but i dont mind at all.. her trick is bla time nk byr brg msg2 msti dia ckp "xde duit pecah la", "guna duit korang dlu nnt blk byr"..huh but never paid.. so many times for almost 2 years..boleh plak dia wt muka selamba jer.. she's not poor.. both her parents worked..more annoyed bla dia ad duit plak support her bf.. donno wat to do since we r close friend..

to those yg maybe tak berapa faham her short forms, let me just summarize it for u. sheela has a close friend that has a bad habit which is like to borrow money from her. eg, when they go out for shopping, whenever they need to pay, sheela's friend will ask sheela to pay for her first by giving excuses like -she doesnt have small change or etc.and this thing has been going on for almost 2 yrs. n now sheela dont know what to do n it really annoys her. shud she tell her friend how she feels?

hi sheela. :) well..i cannot say that ive been in ur situation before sbb mmg tak pernah pun. but yeah.. susah jugak kan kalau close friend yg buat mcm tu. sbb kite pun taktau nak tegur mcmmane. n yg susah nak tegur tu sbb it involves us. kalau dia buat something yg tak best but doesnt involve us, senang sikit nak tegur.

nways, we need comments n opinions from readers as well. in case if anyone of u have ever been in this situation before. tapi kan sheela, if i were u, i think i dont tell directly to her face. because we doesnt want to hurt her feelings kan.(n i bet she is actually a good friend selain daripada this one thing je kan?) what i will do, emm..maybe mcm bile pegi shopping n nak bayar, i will do the same thing that she always does. cth 'alamak. takde duit kecikla. can u bayarkan for me. gantikan je duit aritu kan?'. lebih kurang mcm tu la. but u have to say it first before dia yg cakap dulu. this is only my opinion. sbb i pun sbenanyer tak tau nak buat ape. n of course like ive been telling my readers again n again, im not the right person to give advice.i mean, im not 'qualified' n not that perfect either. baru je tadi i dapat teguran.hahahhaah. so..tulah.

jadi, ape kata sheela tunggu je opinion from readers. :) mane tau ade sape2 nak share with us? :)

thanks sheela! if u think of doing what ive suggested to u, good luck! :D n let us know the outcome!

pimp the blog!!!

2011-03-20T03:09:00.003+08:00

oh yeah!ive pimped my blog!okay. am not the one yg buat but KraftyPalette did it for me. :) thanks ida. so what do u think?

pls ignore the 'about' column sbb i tak buat ape2 lagi. im soo sleepy so i better go to bed now!all my 3 boys r asleep!nanti esok susah pulak nak bangun.

and ida ive soemthing to ask but nanti i email n i dunno kenapa i kena tulis dkt blog yg i nak tanye u something. ok. ngantuk.

nite!

Let's Share = Conflict

2011-03-20T02:34:00.004+08:00

okay. i never know that this could be one of the reason y am i updating my blog at 2.30 in the morning. nways, since ive came out with this idea, i shud at least show some commitment la kan. if someone sent me a problem form, i shud write it here a.s.a.p instead of biarkan for a few days. betul tak?

so here it is. but the author asked me not to copy paste the form or anything. so i just summarized it.

name: michelle
subejct : conflict
message : (summarized back by me)

-been with a current bf(A) for almost 3 yrs. love him so much n believes that A loves her too.
-when michelle was in 2ndary school(few yrs back) she has a bf(B) but not like any other couples. they have never seen each other and only communicate thru sms n phone calls.
-relationship with B didnt last. separated n never contacted each other again.
-last year, michelle had a huge fight with A n out of nowhere she texted B(her ex). they became close n they decided to meet up without A's knowledge.
-went out for a couple of times n love develop between them. B knows bout the existence of michelle's bf(A) but she told him that they r not in a good condition(here michelle admit that it was her mistake by giving B false hope)
- they kiss, hug and slept together*once*(pls dont raise any issue on what's her religion or race). A doesnt know bout it.
-one day, A found a picture of the B in michelle's hp. they fought but michelle convinced Athat she still loves him n cant live without him. BUT, she didnt tell him that she has actually slept with B.oh, and eversince the incident, B backed off.
-michelle feel guilty up til today but cant tell A the truth bcos she knows A wont be able to accept the fact that she has slept with B.
-michelle said she feels regret n promise wont ever do the same mistake again.
-michelle's dilemma is whether to tell the bf(A) the truth or not because they r planning to get married soon and she doesnt want to lose him.
-still think of the ex(B) till today what shud she do to forget him?

Thank you so much Rinie. It makes me feel so much better letting it out.

no problem michelle n thanks for sending this to me. well, like ive mentioned before, im not good in giving ppl advices n im not in a state of having the capability to give advices to ppl. but i guess i shud just give it a try n pretend that u're my friend. :)

ok. MICHELLE...MICHELLE.. omg.. sorry. but y did u sleep with the ex? i mean, like what were u thinking? uve never met him before n how come did u agree to sleep with him?okay. u admit that it was a huge mistake n wont do it again n etc. i seriously hope u wont do it again.

the thing is whether to tell ur bf the truth or not. when r u getting married?soon? i dunno what ur religion is but ive read in some articles before, for muslim, we shud muhasabah or begging for forgiveness from God and promise that we wont do it again. u know sex before marriage is prohibited in Islam. thats the first thing that we shud do. but in ur case, if u r not a muslim, maybe u shud at least promise urself not to do it again. okay. and in the same article, ive read that whats in the past is in the past. we dont have to tell the future husband. (ive read this in a column masalah2 in a newspaper). the one that ive read, the girl has been raped by her ex but getting married to another guy n was in dilemma whether to tell the guy about the incident or not. it's a diff case with u but still, to me, u dont have to tell it to ur future husband. but promise to urself that u wont do something like that again. :)

thats all i can tell u. but i need more opinions from readers. readers pls? anyone?

and as for ur second dilemma. how to forget ur ex. emm..i guess u shud know better on what to do. i mean, do u really love ur current bf?so pls do pls try hard to forget the ex. u have to choose one. throw away everything that u have which remind u of him. okay?

last but not least, good luck to u!

Let;'s Share = weight issue

2011-03-19T15:24:00.006+08:00

hello.. :) after my previous post, ive received the first form of the "let's share with us" form.

i dunno whether i shud printscreen it but i just buat jela.oh, cume if next time i nk upload the problem via bb, i wont b able to print screen ok. just copy paste je. nways, for this email, i copy paste jugak so tht it'd be easier for u to read it.

the copy paste version.

Name*:	anonyn
Subject*:	weight issues
Message*:	hi rinie...just stumbled upon ur blog and then there's a "sharing your problem" corner...so just feel like writing my problem here. i'm very much contented with my life now. stable job, supporting family, and bf who is soon to be my husband, beautiful friends, etc..but the problem has always been within me. i have weight issues. since i was a girl. been picked on by family (buat lawak, usik2 biasalah kan) but it hurts. so, when it happened again and again in ur life it just brings down ur self esteem. i managed to lose weight while i was studying. i was proud of myself and felt good. and masa tu ramai jugaklah yg berminat pada i (sorry mode perasan). then hbs belajar,start keje. tibe2 berat i naik mencanak-canak. i gained 20 kgs. i tak jaga makan, semua benda i makan. masa belajar, stress dgn exam tak lalu mkn. skrg duit pun ada, jadi semua benda nak makan. bf tak pernah sekali pun merungut, dia sayang kat i mcm tu jugak. my family adalah tegur kan (biasalah makcik2 yg pantas bagi komen kan?) i ada plan nak kuruskan badan tapi motivation tu takde. i nak kahwin next year and this bothers me very much. i want to be a pretty and slim bride, but motivation nak diet and exercise memang takde. boleh tak u share mcm mana u motivate diri u nak kurus selepas beranak and how did u do it? ure such a gorgeous mom and i hope u can share with me some of ur useful tips. thank you rinie :)

and to u anon, thanks for willing to share this with us.
ok. i think i can relate sikit2 of ur problem to what ive been thru before. frankly speaking, i rase i tak pernah tulis psl ni dlm my blog before. when i was a kid, primary school till 2ndary school(f2), i on and off jadi bulat dan tembam dan gemuk. it was due to some medication that i had to take because of some health problem which i dont think so there's a need for me to explain it here. :) i know that some of my readers r those from my primary school. so if u r reading this, u tau dulu i penah jadi gemuk kan. ehhee. not berisi but fat fat. lets be real la kan. fat. from size s/m jadi size xl. but ini on and off. so..for a few months i can be like really bulat n for a few months i jadi kurus. its hard for me to explain. so when i was fat, i had a veryyy low self esteem. susah nak cakap dgn org. n i think thats the reason why i was a shy n a pendiam kinda girl. even till now pun i kurang ckp tapi kira dah sgt byk daripada dulu2. my brothers used to teach me as raja ema but lebih bulat. tak kisahla. cume the only prob that i was facing, i tak boleh diet. if i diet pun, badan akan bulat jugak. so nak tak nak kene terima je.

but as i grew older, i betul2 determine tak nak makan ubat tu. n sometimes i lied to my mum that i had taken the medicine but actually i was not last2 kene admitted dkt hosp. ahhaha. those were the days. so when u anon told me that u've been picked on by family, that is normal. mmg time kecik2 kite terasa. tapi bile dah besar, just let it go.

and u wrote there that uve lost ur weight during university's time. thats a great news. i mean, it shows that u can actually lost weight n look good u see. so i think lepas2 ni kalau u nak kurus pun, it shudnt be a prob. even u said that ur bf xmind about ur weight,u just see it this way. elagi u rase u blh kuruskan badan, selagi badan u tu masih boleh dikuruskan. buat je lah. be determined n try hard. dont do it for ur bf(since he xmind) but do it for urself. for ur own satisfaction. dont u want to wear those gorgeous curvy dresses? dont u want to have the hour-glass curves like halle berry? takpun pegi je dkt shopping mall, u akan nampak ramai hot chicks. pakai tudung ke tak pakai tudung. by looking at them can give u some motivation. (i pun tgh nak try kurus badan ni).

so..just think it this way, u r still young, u want to look good. this is the only time for u to look good. bile u dah tua nanti, susah nak jadi kurus. pakai cantik ke ape ke, still u dah nampak tua. n we only live once so live life to the fullest will ya? (pandai je aku cakap.hehe)

soo..tu je i blh cakap dkt u. determine, determine and determine. takpun marah ur bf sbb dia tak kisah u jadi bulat. (dia bukan ape, takut u kene ngorat kot?hehe)

u take care n i wish u all the best!

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p/s anonymous can leave their comments for this post but i will still need to approve it. no harsh words etc pls. :)

problem no 1

2011-03-18T22:11:00.006+08:00

as what ive promised before, am gonna write a problem that someone wrote to me before. but i only wrte this after i got her permission.

it's a she.btw. i tunjuk the print screen of her email to me. tapi can u guys read it? mcm tak nampak kan?
so basically, her prob is that, she's older than me, which mean this yr is 29. supposed to get married this year but suddenly her bf decided to postponed. reason i tak sure sbb dia tak tulis pulak. so her reason of writing this email to me is not to ask for any advices ke ape. but she just want to let it out to a person that she xknow at all. well actually, she said she feels like she's known me for ages but dont really know me. u get what i mean? so dia rase senang cakap dkt i sbb i tak kenal dia n dia pun tak kenal i n kitorg takkan jumpe pun.but she feels closer to me(mcm tu lah kot)but if jumpe pun(if la kan), i takkan kenal dia pun. so her dilemma is to wait or not to wait for her boyfriend. but i think thats not the main reason dia tulis email ni pun. dia cume nak lepas geram je.

soo..tula. basically semua org ade prob masing2. i ade kwn yg dah ready dari semua segi utk kawin, but she just couldnt find the right person yet. :( she has everything. like everything. takde serba serbi kekurangan. semua dah cukup. tapi lelaki yg sesuai je takde. kalau dah kenal org tu, ade je yg tak betul. no, she's not fussy. cume tu lah. just kenal dgn org yg tak sesuai.

well..this is life. even i have my own problem. but hell yeah like i am gonna spill it out here lah kan. maybe if i have a prob i shud write jugak kot kan?hehe. nways, ive created a form for those who feels like they want to share their problem with me n my readers. dont worry, no email needed, u can send the form as anonymous. n for those who want to leave their comment pun i akan accept anonymous. but pls, pls ,pls, no harsh words, no calling other ppl names, or pls dont judge others.

cheers. here is a place for u to share. jgn attack org lain sudah la. u can find the form on my right sidebar, atas skali. ade button fill out my form.

x0x0.

p/s blog saya akan berwajah baru tak lama lagi! yippie yay!

peek-a-boo CHAK!

2011-03-18T10:17:00.000+08:00

The Day Dani..

2011-03-16T14:34:00.006+08:00

The day Dani proved that he has learnt something from his daddy.

what daddy taught him?

daddy taught him how to recognize 'awek' and soo.. last tues he called someone awek. :P

guess who?

......................................

last tuesday dani went for his trial class at fastrackids. anyone ever heard bout it before? fastrackids is located in front of kizsport bv2 so everytime we went to kizsport we passed by fastrackids. so one day i mcm okayla. nak try la. i dunno why i never think of bringing him to fastrackids before.

so before the class, ive planned to meet up my friend put at bv2.n..she told me that she's gonna have lunch there with..jeng jeng jeng.. Hana Tajima. heeee...hana tajima ppl!it's like,meeting a celebrity. anyone who doesnt know who hana tajima is, u can just google her. i was sooo excited!ive been following her in twitter for quite sometime, even before she came to malaysia.

so at 2.30pm sharp i met her at canoodling bv2. i tak makan pun. maybe dh kenyang jumpe dia. chewah. tipulah kan. padahal dah makan before that. :p

and so we met. and soooo dani met her. and soooooooooooooooooooooo... dani called her 'awek'. tibe2 je. n this little pakcik, tell u, he was like looking n smiling n gedik-ing at hana. mmg gedik lah. he called hana 'awek' without me telling him to. just terkeluar dari mulut dia mcm tu je. gedik tu mmg dah tahap gedik lah. amik gamba pun tersenyum2. :P

below are the photos. :P

1st photo-looking at hana

still looking.. and smiling

and admiring.. (macam fhmlah ape org ckp)

konon cute by sticking out his tongue

and senyum and senyum

and senyummm... thanks put darling!

dan senyummmm..

he were smiling in most of the photos. mengada. but yeah. kalau ade girls mmg dia gedik sikit. not only with hana, but with my friends pun.

while waiting for his trial class i brought him to play at kizsport skejap. guess who is more excited than him?

jeng..jeng..jeng..

the maid!haha. tgklah tu tersengih2 dekat blakang

and this is the fastrackids poster or ape2 je lah that u call it.
i will update more on fastrackids. n will take more photos.

x0x0!!!

bubbles!

2011-03-14T21:20:00.004+08:00

guess what i did last nite? or to be specific, where did i go last nite?

bubbles u all!bubbles!ops. hehehehe. not bubbles BUT BUBLE!!! yes ppl!!!i went to watch buble last nite at stadium malawati!

oh em gee. awesomeeee!!!!one of the best concert ive been so far. well, ni 2nd time pun.hahaa. 1st time waktu mariah carey. nways, ive mentioned before that i wont be going to any concerts anymore due to my last experience went to m.c's concert. no no no no. Mariah Carey were realllllyyyy goood with that beautiful voice!but the heat, the pack n etc yg buat i malas gile nak pegi concert lagi.

but..last nite, everything went really smooth. from the parking to the entrance n etc. dah la malam.so tak la panas. n stadium malawati is not that badla.

okay.lets talk bout buble!he's realllllyyyy good with an amazing voice!amazing songs!and amazing attitude summore!he's a very good entertainer!he's good with jokes n good in entertaining the audience. pendek kata, sangatlahhhh best!!!! sangat lah sangat. tak menyesal pergi. thanks to mr.husband. :)

but satu bende je geram, i didnt bring along my goddamn camera. i tot they will check the bag n xallow the cam!but they didnt n dalam tu selamba je semua org amik gamba. i did snap few photos using my bb but u know la, the quality is very bad. n i did record few songs but when i listened to it back, it was horrible. cant really hear the songs n his voice. dengar saya menjerit mcm org tak betul ade la.

:p

see?the lembaga putih is him. seeee how bad the quality of my bb's pic is???????geram kan??but nways, if u didnt get to go to the concert n is one of his big fans, his concert will be showed in star world on march 19. :) stay tuned.

and this is me wearing my nilam on the go scarf for the concert.
my fav scarf!very simple n easy to wear. serious. it looks complicated but it's not. interested with this scarf? go n check it out here. i dun think this specific scarf is being featured in that blog. but u can always ask the owner if u want the exact scarf. She can custom made it for u. Nilam Boutique.

okie dokie! thats all for now.

going to update on the product launching soon. stay tuned ya. oh, n on that day, i was wearing a satin scarf in ha.na taji.ma's style so nnti i will put up the tutorial ya. it's easy peasy. i learned it from ami's blog. n i bought the satin scarf from her too.

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:(

2011-03-11T16:40:00.000+08:00

I'm watching cnn now.tsunami n earthquake in japan. Let's pray for Japan n mintak kita dijauhkan dari bencana macam ni. Amin amin amin.
Is the world coming to an end? We never know. But like what a friend said to me, if it is, she wants to hug her baby n die together. :( I'd do the same too.

Let's pray for their safety n ours too.mintak dijauhkan. Amin.

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blog url

2011-03-09T21:43:00.003+08:00

hello readers.

ive been thinking of changing my blog url from floralpeach to taleofrinanda. what do u think? shud i or shudnt i?if i do that, will everything remain the same?and isit hard/complicated for my readers to trace my blog back?

nways, how r u guys been doing? for these past few weeks ive tried to update my blog as frequent as i can. been busy with the kids n also preparing dani's 2nd birthday. haih. duit mengalir seperti air paip. sebab tu org suruh jimat air*tibe2*

dulu i birthday tak buat ape pun. beli cake je. tu pun cake dah siap dkt bakery.hahaha. pastu tulis n letak candles. guests pun close friends je. ade la dlm 5-6 org.hahahaha.sedihla 5-6 org je kan. takla..adela 10 org mcm tu. tapi still..tak ramai. skarang ni, siap ade catering, dgn khemah. and with all the decos n the activities and the favors.. but what to do. mummy loves doing it. :P actually i am thinking, by the time dani is five, birthday theme ape pulak nak buat? but at the same time, selagi dia masih kecik n ikut je ape kite cakap, baik kite buat ape kite nak. :P nanti tgk la. bile dah besar nanti mesti tak nak buat itu n ini. esp boys. they tend to think that having birthday party is lame la ape la. kalau girls mmg suke buat2 party ni kan. :p

oh ya, tibe2 nak masuk topic lain. i found a booth at ikano that sells nice clothes n nice long shawls. :D bought 2 shawls at a very reasonable price. nnti i tunjuk gamba shawl. cotton tapi jenis yg lembut n tak yah nak gosok2. jenis ikut bentuk n best. :p(what a description).

so thats all for tonight.(i start type this post at 9 am tadi tapi now baru nak abis time because skejap2 kene stop for feeding dayyan,, then dani, then tidokan dani. menepuk bontot dia adela dlm 45 mins. lenguh. :p)

okie dokie. with that would like to end this post with a few sentences yg dani dh start cakap:

1-' dani go and mummy go and daddy go shopping mall.'
2-'dani dukung mummy'(instead of mummy dukung dani)
3-'dayyan sleep on the bed and dani'(instead of with dani)
4-'mummy milky dayyan' (me feeding dayyan)
5-whenever the lil brother cries, dani says "dayyan...napo?dukung meh" sambil depang tangan konon nak dukung. and then sambung balik "milky ke?" he's asking dayyan whether dayyan wants his milk and then he asked me to make the milk.
6-masuk kereta slalunye dia cakap "mummy.go shopping mall. cepat".
7-he now can sing lagu "ibu2 engkaulah ratu hatiku" but ibu changed to mummy.heheheheheh
8-at class "teacher!i want more color pls" whenever the colors in his palette finish.
9- suke nyanyi lagu ana rafali yg boleh pandang2 jgn pegang2 tu. haha

okay. byk lagi. tapi takkan nak list down semua. cume i just need to write down this conversation that i had with him (last month rasenye)

i was in the toilet. suddenly i heard a bang on the door. not a knock but a bang.it was dani. ketuk pintu sambil jerit mummy. so i bukak pintu n he was standing in front of the door. :-

mummy; y? what do u want?

dani: mummy nak duwit.(duit )

mummy: what for?

dani : nak buy train

n suddenly i remember that he threw his thomas n jatuh belakang katil n susah nak amik. haha.

then i said "oooo..nak train yg jatuh belakang katil tu ea?"

dani senyap.

mummy: no need to buy a new one.jom kite try amik train tu k.

dani: amik sapu. amik sapu. (he went looking for something in the room)

mummy on the other hand tunggu nak tgk ape dani buat lepas tu.

dani: sapu takde... *senyap* amik golf. amik golf. (then he went to his toy box n took out his golf stick or whatever thing yg u panggil tu)

guess why was he looking for sapu or golf? rupenye dia nak try tarik train tu keluar using that stick. sapu is penyapu.

haih..tula anak saya. macammane nak boring duduk rumah hari2? there must be something new yg dia buat or cakap everyday. :)

and he's turning 2 yrs old in 3 weeks time. how time flies isnt?

p/s dayyan lebih suka gelak beriya daripada melayan kite bercakap.

x0x0

WorldWellness Product Launching

2011-03-09T12:05:00.001+08:00

Come and join us for our new product launching this Saturday, 12 march 2011, 2pm, Shah Alam Convention Centre.
Secrets to look young,slim n healthy by our own founder Dato' Dr. Noordin Darus.
Come on ladies, we r going to introduce our new beauty products(I'm using it now. :p)which I tell u,is really good.
Anyone coming pls purchase rm10 ticket and you'll get rm50 off for any products on that day.
Pls email me for further info. Tengkurinanda/gmail.

x0x0
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handbag hanger

2011-03-08T14:46:00.010+08:00

holla readers. im helping a cousin to sell these adorable handbag hangers. :) RM35 including postage. do email me at tengkurinanda/gmail if u r interested. :)

A (this is my fav and i have one :p) (SOLD)

C (SOLD)

D (SOLD)

F (SOLD)

G(SOLD)

I (SOLD)

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let's share with us

2011-03-07T20:25:00.002+08:00

okay readers. ive been meaning to make a new column in my blog on this thing.

sometimes i do get emails from readers asking me this n that. when i wrte asking me, they were actually asking me for any opinions on any problems that they r facing. most of them related to rxlite la ofcos. hehe. n ade some asking me on a real problem. serious. tak tipu. ie on what to do when a friend is doing something n she doesnt want to listen to her friend when her friend told her to stop doing it.okay. complicated isnt? malas i nak elaborate. nways, im wondering y me. i mean, byk je org lain. i ni nak advise org pun tak reti. but. frankly speaking, im not good in giving ppl advices but im a good listener. trust me.

nways, ive an idea. im going to upload a form so that u can leave ur problems n let us share it with other readers n change opinions or ideas or maybe advises? dont worry, the form doesnt need ur email add n both authors n commentators will remain anonymously(unless if u want to reveal ur name) and even me wouldnt know who u r(thats even better compare to before right?where u told me ur problem using ur email n send it to me) but every comment will go thru me first. any comments which contain vulgar words or calling names to others will be rejected.

the form will be uploaded soon. :)

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First attempt! Pavlova

2011-03-03T23:10:00.001+08:00

Guess what I baked for dessert tonite? A pavlova! :) (just a quick update).

The taste is a bit too sweet cmpare to those in alexis n serai. so next time I will put less sugar. InsyaAllah if there'll be a next time.hehe. :) nite ppl!

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party planning

2011-03-02T21:09:00.003+08:00

okay. i think i shud write down a list of what-to-do for dani's birthday party.

well. this is my first time making a list for the party. before this, time buat birthday dani, aqiqah dayyan, rockstar party cum bridal party for sil, her baby shower semua tak pakai list. haha.

1-theme (if u really want to have a theme) from here u can determine what r the activities, what r the decos, the colors of the decos, the attires or costume. if u have a theme, the ambiance of the party will look nice. esp in the photos.

2-date, time and venue

3- invitation card. or fb's invitation event.

3-no of pax. isit a small party for close friends n relatives?but yeah, close friends pun kdg2 anak dah 3-4 org.hehe. so it wont be a small party anymore

4-foods. suitable with the time. breakfast?lunch?teatime?or dinner?

5-for a toddler's birthday party, must determine the majority of the age group. because (a) to determine the activities (b) to know what kind of food that should be served because most toddlers love to have finger foods ie nuggets,fries,mini burgers etc.

6-have a certain budget so planning would be much easier. but if the husband said 'do whatever u wanna do" it means that there's no budget limit so u can do whatever u want*evil laugh* but pls la ey?have some courtesy to save la kan? duit suami duit kamu jugak. so act like u're the one who's gonna spend on everything. :p but pls bear in mind, ikut tahap kemampuan ye.

okay.now lets move on to the decos:

1-costume. can find it at any party shop or costume rental. just google u will find a list.otherwise tailor made(khas utk a simple costume.kalau nak pakai princess ke ape ke, baik rent je)

2-how many pcs of balloons? what color?helium balloon?bouquet?arch balloons?

3-the color of the table cloth. diy?buy a new one?i suggest to diy. its so easy n save budget. buy papers with diff colors(depending on the theme color) then tampal2 n etc. then walla. siap. takyah nak cuci lepas tu. terus buang.

4-favors or party packs. what kind of favors that u want to give?(depending on the theme)

5-pinata?what design?(if u want to have one)

6-what else?what else? anything that is suitable with the theme. think think!

and lastly. the activities!

1-like ive mentioned earlier. determine the age group first. klau birthday party for toddler obviously u nak buat activity that is suitable for them kan?
(ok. ive to stop till here je sbb nanti kalau i tulis semua activity nnti dah tak surprise dah.ahhaha..wait for my entry in next month. insyaAllah will write a post on the party)

p/s alasan tak nak teruskan tulis sbb dah mengantuk nak tido.hehe.

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turning 2 soon

2011-03-02T15:46:00.006+08:00

Dani's turning 2 soon.

And i am practically too busy googling n searching around for things to be used for the party.
seriously we r so lucky that now we have the internet and mr.google which make things easier. tupun kene byk2 kali search baru jumpe what i want.

but it wud be much easier if u hire an event planner so u just leave everything to her/him.
but to me, i'd rather do everything myself since im a SAHM and of coursela i want to get involved with my sons birthday party. u can save the money by not hiring anyone n use it for other stuff like getting a cool party packs ke, favors ke or organize some sort of games or activities ke kan?mcm tu la. and oh no no. am not gonna reveal what im planning for the party. :) haha. alaa..nothing much je pun. saje je buat2 gempak.

see this boy?

(2 months old)

and now he has become this big!hehe.

dah nak masuk 2 years dah anak saya yg sulung ni. :)

love love love love u soo much!!

x0x0

p/s ok. bulan september nanti another birthday party is coming up. dayyan pulak. heeee..tah theme ape la pulak time tu. setahun 2 theme. last year dani's 1st birthday is MU. this year, jungle. dayyan theme ape pulak?

Juju's French Theme Birthday Party!

2011-02-28T13:09:00.014+08:00

salam everyone! last saturday was a birthday party of my bff (juju) at kokopeli's pj. :)

nothing much that i want to update except for photos. so anyone who's wondering where is this kokopeli,it's located in pj, in front of paparich old town. small place and suitable for a small party. very cozy. :) but the service that nite was quite slow because there was another big group besides us, tu yg lambat tu. i waited for almost an hour baru food i sampai but its okay because i was too busy talking n taking photos. :)

Theme is- Creme n Black but the deco is more like a french birthday party. :) k.evi did the deco. fyi, she's the one who did the dayyan's cukur jambul buaian and she's running her own business on wedding dais, hantaran n etc. :)

It was a small birthday party among close friends and it has been such a long time since our last get together so skali skale ade bende2 mcm ni mmg best. :)

okay. photos time!

Let's start with the decos photos first. no caption so just enjoy the photos.

and finally. the guests.i came first before najwa the organizer. she came with icha n the balloons!

as usual. tini, puteri n me.

cant miss taking photo with her. :) serious after seeing u in this hijab, i pun nk beli.hahaha.nnti nk tanye busu.

the birthday girl with guests. iena n elsa. :) both of them were my housemates but at 2 diff places.hehe.

with zu the pregger mom!

camwhore. at this time i was sooo hungry!tak sabar nk makan.

with the hot and sexy birthday girl. :)

with k.evi the planner. she's juju's big sistah!

again.hahaha.look how petite she is!

icha micha. love her jumpsuit esp the beads. from zara.

the lawyers*suara poyo*haha. :p irma, juju n zu.

this is my drink!best! guess whats the name?

it is Fly Me To The Moon. :)

my yummylicious food!moussaka. emm..egg on top. dalam dia mcm kuah spaghetti sikit2. but nice. if u go there u shud try this.

and..the birthday girl! to juju(if u r reading this), happy birthday. wish u all the best in years to come. ive known u for 10 yrs n we r still friends till now. u r one of my bestfriends n i wish u alll the best!u know what la kan?hopefully ur wish will come true. n i doakan u supaya toott tooot tooot tooot. bende yg kite slalu discuss. n u need to be more positive!jgn down2 sgt yea..no matter what happen i'll always be there for u. WE'll always be there for u because u know how much we love u kan? x0x0 and uuuu..looking gorgeous as always!

hehe. the birthday wish on the table.

okay readers. thats all for now. till we meet again! oh, last nite i went to watch Terima Kasih Cinta. not bad. will review it in my next post insyaAllah.

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face.book.twit.ter.blog

2011-02-23T15:14:00.004+08:00

yes. facebook.twitter.blog. which one do u prefer?

right now, i prefer twitter as compared to those 2. :p simple, easy,can write just a sentence, doesnt take too much time, n it's easy for me to cathing up on others as well.

it's like, when u need something, u tweet it. n within a minute u will get replies. :p kalau blog, mmg lama la nak tunggu comment kan. n facebook..well..actually facebook as almost the same with twitter. but like ive said earlier, its easier for me to catching up reading other's status as compared to facebook. facebook dlm bb a bit lembab pastu if i want to comment on their status, lambat nak bukak the comment box. if in twitter, i just click reply,type,send and walla. :p

but im making my facebook as my online albums. so if u see no new status, forgive me. malas. hehe.

n one more thing that i love bout twitter is that u feel close with ur fav celebs. im among the first one to know on the twilight updates just by reading peter farcinelli's timelines/tweets. hehe. im a big fan of li.sa surihani n er.ra so i know what they r up too.sounds like a stalker yo. hehe. i can ask almost anything bout bb to popmyberry.hahaha.(i only asked them once je.takdenye hari2 nk tanye2.;p)

so basically, i am more as a tweeter than a facebooker or a blogger. so anyone who wants to know my updates can just easily find me on twitter. ;p twitter is my place now where i can just write anything without feeling silly or etc. because, how can u update a blog by posting "i want cookies' (my tweet just now. :p) kan?

n if i need to write more, i will come here.

bye everyone!

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p/s no no. am not closing down the blog. ehehe. my blog is my baby how can i close i?. i will try to update as frequent as i can. and see?just by writing this post pun i dah update dah. :p

header

2011-02-22T16:10:00.002+08:00

i know i know. am gonna change the header but now i have to cook nasi briyani gam dulu.

so later peeps!!!!

for the time being sila bersabar with this header. :p

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photos.

2011-02-21T15:07:00.007+08:00

ive few photos to upload!

n so here they r.

Dani and Dayyan.

The apple of my eyes,
Thats what they are,
and forever they will be..

:)

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p/s i seriously hope that one day they read my blog n know how much i love them. *hugs*

in this photo dani is 1 yr and 10 months. dayyan is 4 months. :)

the importance of carseats

2011-02-21T10:10:00.003+08:00

hello. :)

have u ever saw a driver who's driving while there's a toddler sitting on his lap?well. i saw it few times. n to make it worst, i saw it on a highway. federal highway.

i still remember that i was driving behind this dark green kancil, n suddenly the driver was speeding n he was driving like a drunk driver. masuk lane without giving signal.lepas tu tibe2 slow balik. so lepas tu i potong because of the curiosity.hehe..biasela..nak tgk muke driver kan?

n u know what, the driver is a she and there's a 1-2 yr old boy on his lap. well..saya mengucap. how can u put a 1-2 yr old todd on ur lap while u r driving? if in US, mesti dah kene dah. tapi dkt malaysia, mmg tak jadi ape la kan.

sorry...but a carseat is not that expensive dah skarang. zaman sekarang ni murah je dah blh dapat. 200 pun dah blh dapat. just think of the long term. senang kalau ade carseat. u can drive anywhere with ur kids. kalau ade emergency ke ape, u blh pegi mana2. because theyve been trained to sit in the carseat.

kalau lah susah mane pun, tak dpt nak beli or anak tak nak pakai carseat, then, dont drive. unless if u have someone yg blh tlg pegangkan anak2 n duduk dkt blakang. sit at the back is safer than sit in front and obviously not on the driver's lap.

ade org cakap, anak diorg tak suke duduk dkt carseat. well. we can train them. ive a few tips. but if u dont want to try then it's ok. :)

dani pun penah tak nak duduk dlm carseat. but we just have to keep training him

-first2 nak train, u sit at the back with ur kid but he must sit in his carseat.

-meronta2 marah? try letakkan dia. n buckle. yeah, mmg tak tahan dgr dia nangis. but try pujuk ke ape ke. or distract him with toys.

-nangis jugak? biar kan je. hehehe. :P ade parents tak sampai hati. but think on the positive side. its for their own good. let me tell u something, radhi(my nephew) penah menangis sepanjang perjalanan from kl to pd. i was in the car with my brother. hati i meronta2 nak angkat radhi keluar. but my bro xallow me. dah nak dkt sampai pd, dia mengantuk n tido. n now, he wont go anywhere without his carseat.

-kalau train dari kecik. senang sikit. cume time dia baby kalau dia menangis2, boleh la u angkat skejap2. at least try. bile dah besar baru jgn kasi muka sgt.

-n now i can go anywhere just with dani je. he'll sit at the back, in his carseat. sometimes u can sing together with him. kasi dia tak bosan. alhamdulillah..sampai sekarang dani ok.

now am training dayyan pulak. senang.. nanti dua2 boleh duduk blakang. mcm my brother(again) 3 anak. and 3-3 duduk dlm carseat. it's for their own good.

nak train mmg susah. some kids cepat je ikut. but some kids agak degil. so u just have to be patient n keep on trying. insyaAllah..niat baik.. tapi kalau tak menjadi jugak, jgnlah drive sorang2 dgn budak kecik tu. at least, bwkla org teman. kalau tak, jgn la drive langsung. just dont put them on ur lap lah pls? some ppl mite think senang je lah saya cakap. sbb anak saya dah boleh duduk carseat. tapi kene ingat, nak train dani tu pun.. bukannya dia celik mata je dia dah reti nak duduk carseat.

kalau tak boleh jugak, i dunno what to say. at least ive said it. try je la dulu ok. :))

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p/s just imagine if emergency brake, ur kid will bump his head on the dashboard or the steering wheel(if duduk dpn). kalau duduk blakang.. terjatuh terperosok dkt kaki.

3rd tutorial

2011-02-18T11:14:00.007+08:00

okay. i need suggestions for the name of this style. i taktau nak letak ape.

for this one mmg i try2 buat sendiri. ive never googled this style before or even try to find it on youtube.. but im not surprise if im not the 1st person cme out with this style. nways, jom share!

oh. wait. i prefer to wear this style if there's a wedding or a dinner to attend too. nampak elok sikit. but utk style ni, a right material is needed. i dun think so it would work on cotton shawls. the shawl that im using below is the chiffon like tapi keras lagi. n it has beads dkt keliling tudung.so senang bentuk.

1- as usual, letak pendek sebelah, n make sure yg pendek tu betul2 pendek because we dont need it to be berjuntai or etc.

2-pin yg pendek tu. tarik betul2 dkt dengan telinga. this way it can cover ur neck. oh wait. lupe nak cakap. part yg u kene pin tu is the part yg bahagian dalam tudung. u mcm twist it. u geddit?if not, u tgk gamba no 3. then u faham. if tak faham jugak nnti i amik gamba the clear shot of which part yg u kene pin.

3-can u see that my left hand is holding the part yg bahagian dalam or bahagian belakang tu? em..i dun think so im using the right term of that part. back to my left hand. u terbalikkan or u twist kan that part n bring it to the back of ur head.

4-nampak tak tudung tu mcm flowy? this is because u tarik part bahagian blakang tu. let me know if u guys dont get it ok. i will try my best to snap new photos so that i can give u a clearer image of it.

5- so finally pin it.

this is how it looks like if u biarkan lebihan tudung tu berjuntai dkt blakang.

nampak berjuntai panjang kan?

otherwise u blh bawak yg berjuntai tu ke depan balik. then it will look like this! i suke this style because it makes ur face look oval. n pjg. :))

soooo...why dont u try it first?if tak dpt, let me know. :))

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hijab tutorial

2011-02-18T10:44:00.008+08:00

hello again. :) n for this post, i'll guide u on how to wear ur square scarf.

i have lotsa scarf given by my mil. cantik2. but i dun really like it when u have to fold it into a triangle n then baru pakai. sbb kdg2 dia licin, kdg2 dia gelembung n etc.

so one day i saje2 try mcm yg i pakai dkt bwh. n finally i found out cara ni mmg ade dlm youtube.hahaha. so am not the 1st one yg buat this style lah of cos.

1-as u can see from the photo below,u put the scarf on ur head without folding it into a triangle. choose an end n letak dkt kepala.

2-pin it.

3-this is how its gonna look like after u pin it under ur chin.

4-then take one side(ur own preference whether left or right side). n bring it to the other side. kemaskan. kalau boleh tarik semua ke depan then bring it to the other side.

5-pull it to the back of ur head. sorry gamba bwh ni tersnap time tgh try.tu pasal ade peace. ahhaha. tibe2 elok pulak so i just guna this photo.

6- as u can see, ive pulled the scarf to the back of my head.

7-. then u pin it. walllaaa!

see?kemas2kan dia. now u can wear all those gorgeous square scarf. :) sorry dkt muke i tu senget sikit. hahaha. smalam nak cepat2 bcos i want to finish snapping photos before my kids wake up.

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3rd tuto after this. :D

p/s ok. seriously. the mickey mouse pillow is really annoying. i shud have hide it. n sorry if u can see dani's legs. haha. terbongkang tido.

hijab tutorial

2011-02-17T22:59:00.007+08:00

salam everyone. :)))) as promised,ive 3 series of tutorials but let me start with this style first. the next 2 tutos will be in a diff post for each style.

so..i call this style of hijab as tudung subang.hehehe. i dunno what is the appropriate name that can describe this style. so i ckp tudung subang je.for this style i learned it from my friend tini. thanks to u. well,i bet most of my readers pun mesti dah tau style ni. but since ade a few yg tanye i, soo..i buat je la post ni. cume i ade tuka sikit cara tu. to make it look more neat.

okay. lets start.

1- put the tudung on top of ur head with one end pendek n the other end panjang.

2-pin kan dkt blakang.
3- this is where i tambah sikit. i amik the shorter end tu i bawak to the other side. this is to cover the neck properly. sbb kdg2 kalau tak buat mcm ni, the neck will be visible. (in this photo im wearing a turtle neck just to cover my neck. kalau nak buat betul2, u dun have to wear a turtle neck top)

3-see? nampak tak?i pin it to the other side. bagi ketat sikit so that takde gap yg boleh nampak leher. :)

5- so part yg panjang tu, u bawak to the other side.

6- longgarkan sikit. jgn tarik sampai betul2 rapat ke leher. biarkan ade gap so dkt depan tu nampak la mcm terjuntai2 tu. :)

7-geddit?look closely at the photo below. kan part depan tu mcm tergantung2.i think u guys faham kot.

8-but some ppl mcm rase rimas. i pun kdg2 rase rimas. so what u have to do is to pull it rapat2 dkt leher n bring it to the back of the head.

9-pin it on top of the head n biarkan blakang tu berjuntai. :)

10- mcm i kdg2 malas nak pin dkt atas kepala so yg bahagian panjang tu i lilitkan je dkt leher, sampai ke belakang leher n bawak ke tepi depan. see?

11- see? nampak dia berjuntai ke depan?

jadi to those yg nak pakai earrings, u can simply put on ur earrings dkt celah telinga tu. but make sure dangling earrings ok. sbb senang nk cucuk. kalau u pakai yg earrings bulat2 tu, nanti boleh nampak ur earlobe. kalau pakai earrings dangling, earlobe still tertutup. if u dun get it, go try put on both earrings then u'll know what am i talking about.

hehehe..ni la cth lebih kurang. :p. both i lilit dkt leher. takde pin dkt blakang pun.

:))) anything that u need to know, just leave a comment.

next post will be on how to wear a square scarf. dont worry. will write on the next post soon since all the photos are ready. :) insyaAllah esok.

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bersawang

2011-02-09T10:59:00.005+08:00

oh yeah.. spider web!bersawang dan sebagainya.

sorry for not updating for such a long time. ive soo many things to write(yeah yeah been telling this few times before) tapi mcm tak terbuat, maaf ye.

utk post arini, i nak update on my new niece! yeay! i have a new niece at home. :) taula family i mmg tak ramai perempuan,besides fay, ni la the 2nd niece. :)

my sil has given birth to a beautiful baby girl on feb 4th. we called her maya. full name tak confirm lagi. hehehe. she's sooo pretty!!yeah i know i know.. kecik lagi takleh nak cakap ape. but i can see that she's gonna be a pretty girl. im like so excited. u know la kan, ive 2 boys so bile datang baby perempuan rase mcm nak melonjak2 lompat ari2. haha. what??

right after visit maya terus pegi beli baju girl. hehehe. excited. n i spent more than half n hr trying to choose which baju. sbb semua nak beli. tapi terpk senang ke nak pakai, ok ke, etc2. baju dani n dayyan tak sampai 5 min dah jumpe.hahaha. it feels like i have a new baby. i mean, now kalau beli baju for both d n d, mesti terpk nak beli utk maya pulak. :) nways, below is the lil princess.

isnt she adorable? :D

maya with nde. :) welcome to the world sweetie!

so dkt rumah sekarang mcm meriah with another baby in the house. :) dani pulak sikit2 je baby maya sleep. baby maya sleep. dayyan pulak dah start active. oh i feel like the house is turning into a nursery. :)

nways, theres another thing. hehehe.. today is my birthday! i am officially a 28 yr old mum. 2 more yrs then i'll be 30. ouch. no. 3 hurts!heeee... takpela. now i can accept the fact. at least ive become a mom of 2 sons, having a good family n a loving husband. so.. no. 3 tu tak kisah la. :P me n dd celebrate my birthday last nite. sbb tonite nak buat makan2 dkt rumah. so last nite was the big nite. :) we went out, he brought me for a shopping treat. wohoo!!i got what i wanted. a very nice gift.. :) thanks dd. had sushi for dinner. lama gile tak makan sushi sbb skarang tiap kali keluar je with dani. n obviously i cant bring him to eat sushi. not yet.

so this is me. during the shopping treat. tgh nak beli brg ni. heeee..:)

n this is my shoes!! thanks dd. :) love it to bits!!!!saya akan jaga betul2. hehehe.

then we went back home. i tgh belek2 kasut n few small things that he bought for me last nite. pastu pegi toilet. tepat at 12 am i went out n saw this small box right in front of the toilet door. wohoo! another surprise n another gift!!!

it's sumthing that ive been wanting for all these while tapi dah terlupa dah sbb mcm takpela..malas nak tanye dd. hahaha.. tibe2 je dpt bende ni. :) thanks dd. sumpah i loveee it. :) its my new baby.

jadi begitulah kisahnya birthday saya. hehehe. at the age of 28 i tak expect anything, a birthday party ke ape ke. bukan rase mcm dah tua. tapi rase mcm, ntah..takyah je. just nk celebrate simple. konon..hahahah. but the gifts really made my day. a million thanks to dd. :) love u so much.

and readers pls, pray that one day i'll be getting a daughter. :) insyaAllah..

hehehe. dayyan on the way to school. 2nd time dah. yeah..am sending him to school. because he likes it so much.

x0x0 everyone!!

tudung tutorial.

2011-02-02T15:06:00.002+08:00

i ade tudung tuto nak buat! :p

but i havent snap the photos yet.. sorry.

sila2 lah pressure saya ok.

insyaAllah soon ok.

happy chinese new year to all my readers. no matter whether u celebrate it or not, its still a public holiday! :p

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